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That's an easy position to have except it immediately makes every conversation easy to cohear with sealioning.
I can understand being skeptical of the other persons summary of sentiment, I am as well, but I don't think your statement is accurate.
It's a mild exaggeration. I sometimes talk about things happening on the fediverse without providing a link, but the difference is, if I'm asked for a link, I can provide one. It isn't difficult to use the search function, especially if my memory of a conversation is reliable.
In any case, it's always best to assume the person is lying if they say something about their opponents' views that they can't actually back up. Like, I could say that I had some half-remembered conversation with somebody where they said they like to torture puppies. If you read that, it shouldn't go into the "maybe" column, it should do into the "false" column. It's false until it's validated with evidence, and that's especially true when evidence should be easy to provide.
If you treat it as anything but an outright lie, that promotes a culture of making stuff up, because bad actors are fine with getting people to think their opponents "might" torture puppies, and they won't get called out in that culture. This is how you get crybullies.
In any case, even if it isn't an outright lie or bad faith, you can't rely on people's memories. Hell, a lot of the time, a person couldn't even accurately restate the other person's position during an argument.
I've said this line dozens of times btw (and it's in my profile). I don't recall ever being proven wrong, they never have the receipts.