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[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

nothing illegal about just getting dropped in a hole as-is on private property most places

That’s not true for good reason- people who don’t know what they’re doing could contaminate groundwater/runoff very easily.

It shouldn’t be as expensive as it is, and I’d support dropping unembalmed corpses without certain diseases (an asymptomatic or undiagnosed prion disease could be incredibly dangerous) in a hole, as long as they are adequately buried. That would require an autopsy and either significant refrigeration costs or a rushed job without embalming though.

[–] moonshadow@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

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You seem to have linked to the entire wikipedia article on body disposal, possibly without reading it. Here's a map, some info from a funeral home, and legal advice state by state. Sorry if this is too US-centric, that's where I've been through the process five times.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This is the relevant section from the wiki:

Many jurisdictions have enacted regulations relating to the disposal of human bodies. Although it may be entirely legal to bury a deceased family member, the law may restrict the locations in which this activity is allowed, in some cases expressly limiting burials to property controlled by specific, licensed institutions. Furthermore, in many places, failure to properly dispose of a body is a crime. In some places, it is also a crime to fail to report a death, and to fail to report the disposal of the body.[37]

From your link:

Having a grave too close to a water source is either not wise or not legal. It also may not be permitted to have a gravesite within a certain distance of a building or your property line. These are called setbacks, and setback laws are different for each state. Often, setback rules make it all but impossible to put a grave in someone’s urban or suburban property without breaking the law.

I’d be interested in how widespread the legality is practically, because (reasonably) everything I looked at said to check local laws, but I can understand why that’s not included exhaustively. My family tried to in a rural area of a non rural state where the sources say it’s allowed, but the setbacks made it practically impossible- watershed areas are larger than you would expect, even without visible bodies of water nearby.

[–] moonshadow@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 days ago

Well, my original suggestion was to befriend a rancher... not an expert and can't speak as to exactly how widespread it is (or even if this was legal I guess), but anecdotally all it took was asking around a little. Nice spot on a hill, few people/critters already buried there, felt right, cost nothing. Two generations in and I'd like to be a third. If that's not widely accessible I wish it were, from this end I've never heard of a $7k human composting service and it sounds way crazier to me than just getting buried in a pasture