Can't believe the parental controls stance isn't more widespread.
D06M4
joined 8 months ago
Probably the uncertainty of choosing a server and have it either vanish unexpectedly or it's admins ban your account without prior warning or transparency, which is also pretty common here in the fediverse.
I always help onboard people choosing one or two longstanding servers they might like. The last time I told someone to just use the matrix.org server to begin (years ago) it had closed registrations two hours earlier. Never again. 😅
It probably is. They just close registrations from time to time. But other smaller servers are usually a better choice.
There's a couple of server lists I like to check.