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OMFG. I've been eating like 5-7 of these every day for a while now. They're so good! I could easily do 10, I think.
What's unfortunate is that even tho I eat so many donuts and so, SO much peanut butter daily, I'm still unable to gain weight 😭
Maybe I'm too active, but like, aside from having fun with my bf now, I basically just sit all day. Ugh ;-;

NSFW, TMIAnd now I totally wanna stack a bunch of donuts on my bf's dick, cause I'm dying to know what that would be/look like 😂
We've never tried it...we might :3

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Might be worth not gaining weight issue checked out

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I might've been able to do this pre-HRT, but now I'd just throw up by the time I reached the third. If I haven't had enough nutrition, junk goes from appetizing to disgusting.

[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 19 minutes ago

Not from my experience...

NSFW, TMIJunk usually goes from "Ooh, yummy!" to "Waow, it got better??" to "Omfg give me moar!" 😂
This is with a guy ofc :P

[–] gandalf_der_13te@feddit.org 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

girl you gotta eat healthy, your body needs fiber and vitamins just as much as it does need calories.

i recommend pasta, it's cheap, low in sugar, delicious and will not give you a tummy ache.

recipe:

  • cook noodles for ~10 minutes (see packaging)
  • add tomato sauce and plant oil
  • add spices, vegetables, literally anything you can find
  • enjoy
[–] gandalf_der_13te@feddit.org 4 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

note: at my supermarket they sell a glass of topping (tomato sauce with vegetables and other stuff inside) for 1.50€ per bottle. noodles are like 3€/kg (1 kg lasts for ~5 servings), that makes 2.10€ per serving (1 bottle tomato sauce + 200g noodles).

and that's a big serving :P

[–] synapse1278@lemmy.world 65 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You need a more balanced diet, try different colors.

[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've tried, but I keep coming back to pink. Turns out, I really like the color pink and I've just been repressing for so long, lol

I really like the white ones with the pink splooshes tho! They're also jelly-filled and they're delicious.

Omfg I love donuts 🩷

[–] Furbag@pawb.social 3 points 14 hours ago

The white frosted cake donut with sprinkles is easily in my top 3 donut flavors. I cannot describe what white frosting tastes like other than that it's not just regular glaze.

But nothing can really hold a candle to my beloved. I am of course talking about the legendary maple bar.

[–] state_electrician@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"What's that?"

"Pink glazing"

"What does it taste like?"

"Pink"

[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It does tho! There's no other way to describe it 😭
The color pink is so yummy tho :3

[–] Seralth@piefed.seralth.com 3 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Iv long described the taste of normal monster as "the color purple" not grape mind you, the actual color purple and some people just look at me weird.

Sometimes things DO just taste like a color. It's just a fact of life. You aren't weird or wrong for thinking this. Your among kindred colour tasters here.

[–] Grimy@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There are healthier ways to gain weight than pure sugar and butter! Take care of your body.

No! I refuse 😭 /s
Nomnom delicious sugar and fat :3

[–] TomMasz@piefed.social 11 points 22 hours ago

Turns out eating 11 pink donuts will kill you, so count carefully.

[–] Titanna@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

By pink donuts, You mean bakery snacks, deep fried in oil, full of sugar super sweet, that gives diabetes?

Ughm... other donuts are same... my bad.

To gain weight, I'd say, get slower consumed carbs, potatoes, rice, pasta. Fast in fast out sugar may do not the trick.

[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

All donuts are sweet, unhealthy and utterly delicious :3

I'm trying to avoid sugar for weight gain (well, except for the donuts :P) and instead sticking to fat. Peanut butter is basically just healthy fat and protein...I thought it was gonna work, but I'm still the same weight 😭

I'll give pasta a try. Thanks 💜

[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Heya, massive sympathies from a fellow struggle-to-gain-weight person. Back of the napkin math here; standard size frosted doughnuts are only 260 calories, so if you eat 7 a day that's only ~1800 calories. Peanut butter is roughly 100 calories per tbs. Assuming you're moderately physically active, you're going to need to eat about 1/2 a cup per day in addition to the doughnhts just to hit your maintenance caloric intake.

My goto when I get too skinny and my dr starts yelling is icecream (Admittedly I can't do lactose, so the goto is Ben & Jerry's (slightly genocide-y, unfortunately) non dairy that is excellent- I also adore tofutti cuties if you can find them) and Jack In The Box. Granola is super calorie dense too, and if all else fails you can just spill a bunch of peanut butter M&Ms on the floor and make like a hungry hungry hippo.... And as the other commentor suggested, pasta is surprisingly calorie dense (tho I often find it too filling)

much sympathy & well-wishing & luck & suchlike. blegh, it's a struggle.

Thanks for the tips. I'm sure I can find some of those things you mentioned around here. I'll try.

It sucks, really. Thank you for the comment 🩷

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

you will definitely regret eating 8-10 donuts in one sitting. I don't even mean in a long term "the weight you gain" kinda way, I mean that's a surefire route to tummy ache just space it out a little more.

[–] lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 4 points 19 hours ago

Not if you've gradually built up and trained yourself to eat 8-10 donuts in a single sitting

[–] cybervseas@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just checking in: if you are struggling to maintain a healthy weight it's something to bring up with your doctor. You never know what the cause might be.

[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not struggling to maintain healthy weight, I'm just permanently stuck at 182cm and 68kg 😭😭😭
I really wanted a fatter ass...sigh 😔

At least HRT is making me shorter for some strange reason. My height is very slowly going down a bit, but my weight...I just can't change it at all! 😭

[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

height reduction on estrogen is to be expected, it makes joints and ligaments retain less water so as a result they become slightly more squishy/stretchy. effectively, the bones in your spine will all get a little bit closer together (and your hips/knees/ankles will also contribute to a lesser extent), and you can expect to lose a cm or two

stretchier tendons is also what causes the increased pelvic tilt, which can also contribute a bit of height loss depending on how your the rest of your body moves around to counteract that

I see! I read the Gender Dysphoria Bible, so I kinda knew what to expect. Although, I'd be super glad for some more pelvic tilt, cause what I have now is just pure bad posture 😭

Thank you! 💜

[–] cybervseas@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Height going down, make sure you aren't losing bone density! HRT can mess with that.

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Get ready for some pink vomit!

Nooooo 😭

GrossI haven't vomited in a loooong time, actually. Which is a good thing, I think! And I'm proud of myself tbh. I used to be an insane puker when I was younger 😭

[–] SpruceBringsteen@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Anyone hear the into to Needles playing?

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Kinda like the grapefruit technique for cops. Just be sure to make the obligatory rabid jaguar noises while you do it.

[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Wait wtf is the grapefruit technique? I know it's something sexual, just not sure exactly what. I need to know 😭

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 minutes ago

Certainly not what I expected, but I appreciate it 😂️
Thanks for that! 💜️