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[–] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 1 points 1 day ago

“They” as singular was really only made for when you didn’t know the sex of the person you were referring to, not as a pronoun for someone who you do. It had nothing to do with “gender identity” because that wasn’t a thing. Gender and sex were synonyms, 2 words for the same thing.

Eg “can my friend come to the party too?” “Yeah sure, what do they like on their pizza so I can make sure there is one they like?”

Not

“Can John come to the party?” “Yeah sure, what do they like on their pizza?”

In this instance you’d always have used “he” because you know with pretty much absolute certainty that John is male on account of being a male name.

It has only very recently been used as a choice that people tell people they want to be referred to by, because some people now believe in a “gender identity” being a separate thing to sex.

It existing as a singular pronoun doesn’t mean that it was used in the same context as it is now.