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[–] Openopenopenopen@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Shouldn’t have to be taught to treat others with respect or how you would treat yourself

No disrespect, but I disagree. Respect is absolutely a learned behavior.

what ever respectful means is a defined by your culture. What is considered respectful is different in the uk versus the us, at least that’s what thought this post was about.

Kids absolutely need to be taught this. Kids don’t magically share, or treat each other with respect. You teach kids how to be respectful everyday.

[–] Uruanna@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

You teach behavior and biases, but it's well observed that kids naturally don't see distinctions between groups of people until it is taught to them, and that kids do feel empathy naturally, and will feel upset about perceived injustices and such. Isolating a white kid so they don't see a Black kid until they're 15 is a learned thing, if they're raised in a shared environment, they won't see a difference. What you teach is how to act on it (like sharing), how to handle emotions about it. Restricting experience is teaching.

[–] plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You need to be taught to treat others the way you would yourself?

Or are you teaching your kids who and what to respect? Because you’re doing the latter, not the former and are perpetuating these issues.

This has nothing to do with culture at large, that’s justifications for rasicm, and that’s what you’re teaching your kids. The exact issue that’s trying to be pointed out.