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I Hate My Friend: The chatbot-enabled Friend necklace eavesdrops on your life and provides a running commentary that’s snarky and unhelpful. Worse, it can also make the people around you uneasy. (www.wired.com)

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The AI-powered Friend pendant is now out in the world. If you live in the US or Canada, you can buy one for $129.

The smooth plastic disc is just under 2 inches in diameter; it looks and feels a little like a beefy Apple AirTag. Inside are some LEDs and a Bluetooth radio that connects you (through your iPhone) to a chatbot in the cloud that’s powered by Google’s Gemini 2.5 model. You can tap on the disc to ask your Friend questions as it dangles around your neck, and it responds to your voice prompts by sending you text messages through the companion app. You can reply to these messages with your voice or via text to keep the conversation going.

It also listens to whatever you’re doing as you move through the world, no tap required, and offers a running commentary on the interactions you have throughout your day. To perform that trick, the device has microphones that are always activated.

If the idea of a microphone-packed wearable that’s always listening to your conversations raises privacy concerns for you, just know that you’re not alone. If your experience is anything like ours, wearing the Friend will likely earn you the ire of everyone around you. Curiously, you might even end up being bullied by the chatbot itself.

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[–] spit_evil_olive_tips@beehaw.org 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

yeah, no, we still disagree. I think you are missing the point completely, and continually.

general protip: if the conversation is about some behavior being creepy or weird or against social mores, and you jump in talking about the legality of it, you are missing the point, and also contributing to the creepiness.

for another example, upskirt photography was legal in the US until 2004 (at least at the federal level, state laws seem to have trickled in around the same timeframe)

hop in a time machine back to 2000, and imagine there's a digital camera that's marketing itself as being very easy to attach to your shoe in order to take surreptitious upskirt photos.

people say "wow that's a fucking creepy product" and you jump in to say that technically it's not illegal, and people have the right to attach cameras to their shoes. and if a woman is wearing a skirt in a crowd of people, and sees a guy with a camera on his shoe, she has the right to walk away from him. that is technically true, and also completely misses the actual point.

if you think upskirt photos are a bad analogy, here's a reddit thread from 2 weeks ago about a gynecologist wearing the "Meta Ray-Ban" sunglasses that have a built-in camera.

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io -1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

yeah, no, we still disagree.

Okay, then, we're in disagreement. But I'm still able to use it, so.

Call it creepy if you want, that's fine, that's your opinion. It's not infringing anyone's rights.

[–] spit_evil_olive_tips@beehaw.org 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

But I’m still able to use it, so.

yeah. except when you're not.

because this "I can do whatever I want" Ron-Swanson-wannabe brand of libertarianism is very predictable.

if you go to a dinner party and the host notices your Spyware Amulet and says "turn that off or leave my house" would you respect their property rights? without pissing and moaning about it?

if a bar or restaurant banned them (like happened with Google Glass) would you respect that rule as well?

if you were on a date, and your date noticed and said "that's kinda creepy, would you mind turning it off?" would you do it? or would you start ranting about how it's not infringing on your date's rights?

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 1 points 4 days ago

Those places aren't public places, so of course I'd turn it off or leave.

If I was in public and someone told me to stop recording, I'd likely say "no." Hasn't that been a major point of pushback against police demanding that we not record them, for example?