QuinnyCoded

in this context it's where trans people are told they pass when they're still clockable. Depression and dysphoria can lead people to only feel like people are being honest about them when they are tearing eachother to pieces, like 4chan.

which is kinda true but also kinda not. Because like no matter what there's still gonna be parts of you that are still you pre transition, but like you can still have those characteristics and pass well.

For a specific example I posted this in a trans discord server and got all positive responses:

whereas if I posted it to like 4chan and got a "lol you still look like a dude" comments I would feel like they're still being honest instead of hyping me up.

Like as much as I know I do pass now (haven't been misgendered by a customer in months) and that my cis coworkers all have more masculine features than me like one is taller, one has POCS, one has a deeper voice, etc. I still feel like people are just lying to me about it. Just a thing with depression I need to work through I guess 🤷‍♀️

happy cake day

One of my managers is like this, it's all just jokes and sillyness. Jobs suck and it's fun to just be a little taboo sometimes

If you read something you don't understand 87% of the time its transgender.

this should be the subs tagline lol

Same, and Im on estrogen 😆

accidentally tugging the Ethernet cable

i worship my cat :)

Congrats! I'm ~20lbs down since I started trying to lose weight again and ~50lbs from my peak weight.

ngl I haven't noticed a difference at all, but I did have to use a knife to make a new belt hole on my belt 😭

I have officially reached a new level of laziness for making memes. it's literally just a cropped discord message lmao

I had the unconventional idea that "tourniquet" should just be spelled "turny-kit" because who the hell came up with spelling it like that

happy cake pardner 🤠