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TLDR: The r/selfhosted subreddit has a Discord server. The owner's account got hacked leaving the server in a precarious state. They submitted a support ticket, but Discord has not taken action in weeks and probably won't at all, so they are considering starting a new Discord server.

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[โ€“] hirihit640@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago (10 children)

Those saying "just self-host Matrix/Stoat/XMPP", do not understand the power of network effects. If people are too lazy to sign up on your custom server, and you end up with 50% of the users you would have gotten if you used Discord, is that worth it? What if it was only 10%?

I wish there were a solution to this. Interoperability sounds nice until you have multiple competing standards (like Matrix and XMPP)

[โ€“] ICastFist@programming.dev 10 points 1 month ago

The solution is for everyone to migrate to Jami, which is obviously the better option!

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