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Can't believe I had to have this conversation again today, with someone who should know better. You can't just un-racist a word because it makes you feel bad man.

Edit to add more context:

Rice burner is a pejorative term originally applied to Japanese motorcycles and which later expanded to include Japanese cars or any East Asian-made vehicles. Variations include rice rocket, referring most often to Japanese superbikes, rice machine, rice grinder or simply ricer.

Riced out is an adjective denigrating a badly customized sports car, "usually with oversized or ill-matched exterior appointments". Rice boy is a US derogatory term for the driver or builder of an import-car hot rod. The terms may disparage cars or car enthusiasts as imposters or wanna-bes, using cheap modifications to imitate the appearance of high performance.

The term is often defined as offensive or racist stereotyping. In some cases, users of the term assert that it is not offensive or racist, or else treat the term as a humorous, mild insult rather than a racial slur.

Source.

I'd like you to read this from a guy who's father is from the Philippines. His mother is American. Then have a good think about it. Actually think about it for a day or so.

Palting: (reenlist forums)

*When you call a car a "ricer", you are saying that it is not a nice car, possibly even an atrocious car. I don't believe you will ever hear a statement like "Look at that gorgeous ricer!!" So, in response to the question, is it derogatory, the answer is that the term ricer is most definitely derogatory.

The question then becomes, is it racist? The term "ricer" was coined to denote the cars that were made in Japan or Korea that were subsequently modded and are obnoxious to the observer. You can ask 100 people what car brand comes to mind when you say "ricer" and 100 of them will come up with an Asian brand. Ask those same 100 people what country or race comes to mind, and 100 will say some Asian country. We can safely say that "ricer" would indicate the Asian culture where rice is the staple food. We can define a term racist if the term pertaining to a race or a race's cultural character is considered derogatory. Therefore, the term ricer is most definitely racist.

If, lets say, one of the African nations built a car, would you call it a "******"? The term "ricer" most definitely belongs in the same category as ******, slant-eyes, gook and what have you. Shame on anyone who uses the term and who does not realise it is very definitely racist.

My mother is from the USA, my father is from the Philippines. I was born and raised in the Philippines. I am a Filipino. I am not a "halfer", nor "mestizo", nor anything other than a Filipino national who chose to reside in the US as an American citizen.*

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[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

You can't just un-racist a word because it makes you feel bad man.

I think you should look into reclaiming slurs. The once derogatory term now has a positive meaning and that's imo a good thing. Look at the word 'Queer', most people (especially young people) don't know it used to be derogatory, and I don't think people should stop using it.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queer
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reappropriation

With an obvious albeit obligatory note that if you use a word in a derogatory way that's obviously not ok, if you use it with the compliment definition it's a bit different.

Some reappropriation can be at varying levels in different countries which is why (I assume) it's seen as worse in other countries.

If you are to respond I would request to hear your rebuttal without copy and pasting the same article please.

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago

The claim that "queer" is being reclaimed is easily supported. Not so with OP's term. If you have evidence to the contrary I'll look at it.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Sorry, let me clarify. You can't just un-racist a word, unless you're the targeted group, because it makes you feel bad man. I figured that I didn't need to add that caveat? I've talked about the word Queer in other places in the thread.

[–] stickly@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

It was a derogatory insult toward poor gear heads, who else can reclaim it? Only the Asian born subset? Asian people who never touched a motorcycle? It was never about any Asian traits of the riders or the vehicles but strictly that they were imported and the low cost.

Would you be ardently crusading in a hypothetical alternate history where these people had access to cheap Soviet Ladas? Surely cabbage burner would be just as offensive?

While we're on the subject, here is a non-exhaustive list of European heritage word associations you are no longer allowed to say in any context outside of a recipe:

  • Pasta
  • Sauerkraut
  • Rye
  • Potato
  • Beet
  • Milk
  • Mayo
  • Butter
  • Burger
  • Donut
  • Cucumber
  • Beer
  • Vodka
  • Baguette
  • Pickles/Pickled
  • Radish
  • Herring

Much like your anecdotal blog post source, I personally find these highly offensive.

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

ah that kinda makes sense. Can you explain why who's reclaiming a slur makes a difference? I don't really understand why you wouldn't like a positive meaning to a once negative word. It doesn't really make a lot of sense to me.

I'd reference how "cunty" (used as a compliment) isn't exactly only said by women, but people who are generally seen as 'in the loop'. How come the word referenced in the post isn't treated the same way? I genuinely am asking and find this really interesting.

Also idk if it did but sorry if my message came off as rude before, I was kinda stressed about an advising meeting when I wrote it

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I don't really have the spoons to explain it to you. If you aren't the aggrieved party, it's just not reclamation.

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 5 points 9 hours ago

please come back when you have the energy to continue this conversation 👍