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Hey friends. I finally fired nextcloud - and so should you.

edit: wow. reddit banned me for posting a link to my (completely unmonitezed, unproductized) blog in multiple r/selfhosted threads. I bet it's related to this lemmy link

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[–] illusionist@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

You use a mesh vpn with a reverse proxy? How does that work?

I run opencloud containers straight on my NAS server running ubuntu LTS, I then expose container ports on tailscale only, and then I route it via nginx proxy manager through my public VPS via tailscale.

I'm not sure. Is it public facing or not? What's the mesh vpn for?

and so should you.

Why should I? I couldn't read it in the post. I use nextcloud because its easy and it has caldav which I use nextcloud 50% for. The other 50 percent is thinking I have a cloud if I someday need one.

[–] Engywuck@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

I really hate those posts with the "you should..." part. Let people use whatever they want.

[–] AbidanYre@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 month ago

They perdo6ate

[–] pirat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

[You should] Let people use whatever they want.

:D

[–] bytepursuits@programming.dev 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Let people use whatever they want.

you can do what you want

[–] Engywuck@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

Thanks, my lord.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Let people ~~use~~ post whatever they want.

[–] Engywuck@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

They can post whatever they want. I'm just here, hating it.

[–] EpicFailGuy@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I do something similar I use Pangolin (Which is an EXCELLENT project) as a self hosted alternative to cloudflareD tunels. I host it on a public VPS and then thru it tunnel web traffic to my public resources, that way I don't have to expose my IP or have a static. Then I also use netbird as an overlay network not only to access my servers remotely but also to "join" two sites via a VPN (Backup server at my mom's)

[–] illusionist@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That sounds like you use the mesh vpn for managing the server, e.g. ssh, and you've got a server at home and route all traffic via the vps to hide your ip. Do i get it right?

OP's setting sounded like he's exposing his stuff publicly after routing through mesh vpn

[–] EpicFailGuy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

correct, it also has the benefit of allowing my IP to change without impacting public or private access.