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[–] jcs@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

This is mostly true, but farming/ranching is constant work once you have even a modest amount of land and livestock.

I grew up in a low-net-worth family, working on a farm that has been in our hands since 1873. I worked 3 jobs while studying my butt off, and eventually got a degree in Electrical Engineering with a Computer Science minor. I was recruited into various government programs and defense contracting companies, made my way to consumer electronics and medical device companies, then finally free- and open-source hardware/software. I now gratefully hold a very prestigious position while living full-time in my RV while prepping a fully self-sustainable homestead back on my family's ranch.

There is no substitute for the beauty of nature in the small amount of time we're able to appreciate it. That said, there are many many many to enjoy nature without sacrificing vacations for the vocation of fixing fence, herding cattle, plowing fields, eradicating invasive species, calling the game warden on poachers, fixing fence....

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

I have dreamed of this life since before I was in tech.

I was born in a passive-solar, earth-sheltered house that my dad designed and built himself. Instead of a stack of Playboys he had Mother Earth News in the back of the closet. My parents owned one of the first Priuseseses in the US.

For a wonderful few years I had this life. I raised pigs and chickens and managed my property. I got into the best shape of my life, physically and mentally, and just stepping out of my front door made me feel more alive than I've felt since I had to move back to the burbs. (I don't think people realize how little oxygen they get in urban and suburban environments.)

Though I am stuck in the suburbs for now I am determined to get back to that. I would rather wake up to a hungry pig tearing apart its enclosure than to another fucking meeting.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

I farm now, but I still run my own infra and build apps. I just do it in the winter when I have nothing else to do.

And I don't miss the users. One. Single. Bit.

[–] nonentity@sh.itjust.works 4 points 18 hours ago

30+ years experience with computing, and I hate them.

They only ever do what you tell them to, and they’re not even doing that anymore.

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Depends on the person and what they've dealt with. I've worked IT since '99, but I'm not really burnt out. There are definitely things I dislike, but I still enjoy tech, I still enjoy gaming, and I'm still interested in future tech, even if I do agree I don't like the direction it's going in.

Part of it is that I seem to have a pretty decent burnout warning sensor, and I just stop whatever no work thing moving me that way for a while. Yes I like games, but I like reading, I like climbing, I like biking, I like photography, I like nature, I like the stars, etc.

Another reason may be that while I dislike the way some tech is going, I have other worries about either nontech stuff or just the main reason tech stuff is going in wrong directions, and those worry me more, so tech can still be an escape from worse worries.

[–] JoeMontayna@lemmy.ml 1 points 12 hours ago

For me it's not the direction tech is going but rather why it's going that way. Tech used to be about innovation and creating cool stuff. Nowadays it's more about turning a profit. Cloud was not new or innovative, it was just a more profitable way of doing things.

[–] kubofhromoslav@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

My original plan when going to IT university was to make 1 money-milking website and move to a forest in middle of nowhere...

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

Same and I graduated high school in the year 2000.

Still working on that.

[–] Willem@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 19 hours ago

Surprised no one pointed out that it is a screenshot from the movie oblivion. If you have not seen oblivion, go watch it. It has an excellent soundtrack by M83

[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 19 hours ago

Not far off. I wouldn't do well with owning and maintaining a farm, but damn do I yearn for a career change often

[–] papertowels@mander.xyz 0 points 12 hours ago

If I had to start over I'd probably start with a plumbers apprenticeship. I like the work, and there's something to be said about having "completed" a job at the end of a day that you don't really get even if you close a feature.

[–] Croquette@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The issue isn't the tech itsefl but the corporate world and its effects throughout society.

There is a lot of cool tech, but used for the most asinine products. 2015-2016 was especially terrible with the accessibility of IoT. Everyone and their mother had a Kickstarter with a common everyday item with wireless capability tacked into it.

No, my bottle doesn't need Bluetooth.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

The longer I work in tech the less I'm impressed by new tech. I don't want the latest and greatest phone. I don't need a crazy gaming PC. I don't need or want a bunch of smart devices. I want a few useful things that I can manage myself, and the freedom to wake up to no alarm except the livestock.

[–] hark@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Sometimes I wonder if it's me getting old or if it's tech being more and more about solutions in search of a problem. I feel like we had reached a "good enough" point for a while, but I can't tell if the "good enough" judgement is just me getting old and stubborn.

[–] Mk23simp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Nah, I like PC gaming too much to want that. What I want is to be free of capitalism.

[–] Sine_Fine_Belli@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Yeah, same here honestly. I too wish to be free of avarice

[–] Googlies@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I love growing things and I also love tinkering, building, finding new gadgets.

Have been a techie all my life so far, will be a techie until I die.

People that get tired of tech jobs, might not be because of tech, rather the people they have worked with and the unrelenting pull of a capitalist society.

[–] jali67@lemmy.zip 1 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I have a tech degree but I more so would love to focus on open source and just enjoying tech other ways. Creating or contributing towards software for a large corporation that I only get a very small piece of the pie for and would drop me at any moment isn’t motivating to anyone I would imagine.

[–] oretoise@programming.dev 107 points 2 days ago (3 children)

It tends to be more “I want a thing that just works.” rather than no technology, but yes.

Self-hosting services that are reliable and don’t get in my way, not using cloud-connected smart devices, running Linux instead of Windows, etc.

[–] tatterdemalion@programming.dev 34 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's sad that self-hosting is apparently the path to having a solution that "just works". You'd think that paying for a product would be more effective, but alas...

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk 20 points 2 days ago

I'm starting to realise that a big part of why self hosting works is the customisability of it. There's no financial incentive for Google or whomever to make sure process A has an interface to talk to process B because it's a minority use case in their clientbase.

Self hosting - either someone has already had the same issue and made a plugin or I can create a shim of some description to make the two things talk to each other that wouldn't be practical at scale.

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[–] Gust@piefed.social 84 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Was working on a PhD in CS focused on industrial cybersecurity, though current events involving the three letter agency that funded my research lead to me crashing out and now I'm trying to get into law school and do immigration law. Far too frail and pasty to buy a farm though

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[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 76 points 2 days ago (3 children)
[–] vane@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

He stopped that profession in Jun 2025
Bonsai farmer
Self-employed Jun 2025 - Present · 7 mos

https://www.linkedin.com/in/dryuan/

Another classic

Sorry I missed your comment of many months ago. I no longer build software; I now make furniture out of wood.

https://github.com/docker/cli/issues/267#issuecomment-695149477

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[–] mitchty@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I grew up on a farm, hell no. If you think farming is going to be any different you’re delusional. It’s also full of physical labor that takes a toll on you.

But give it a go if you want just don’t think farming or ranching is simpler it’s not. And now you alone take on the responsibility of managing many lives be they plants or animals.

Yes it’s rewarding keeping a baby calf alive in -30 weather but be prepared to wake up every couple hours to keep watch on the animals. Also say goodbye to vacations. Without a family member or 5 to help out it’s hard to take a vacation without worrying that coyotes got into the chicken coop or other shenanigans.

[–] potpotato@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

These people are “farming” in retirement, not for a living. Basically have a bunch of ducks and a couple mule.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I have a business plan ready for raising heirloom breeds of pigs and expensive ingredients and selling them to fancy restaurants. If I can get the right connections I can make it a pretty profitable business. Damn near broke even on four hogs last time, even with setup costs.

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Exactly. There's a huge difference between being a hobby farmer and actually trying to make a living as a farmer or rancher. Without needing to support yourself off of it, you can raise only a small number of animals you can comfortably care for, grow what you want without concern for market prices, etc. It's the difference between coding for a hobby and coding for a job.

[–] gramie@lemmy.ca 36 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The Pulitzer Prize-winning book The Soul of a New Machine, chronicling the development of Data General's Eagle computer in the 1970s, one of the characters is a microcode developer, responsible for hardwired logic that runs the CPU.

Part of his job is managing electrical impulses that last for microseconds or nanoseconds. One day, the team comes in to find his workstation abandoned, with a note on the monitor saying that he is going to join a commune in Vermont, and never dealing with a unit of time smaller than a season again.

The tech may be ancient for us, but it's a superb book.

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[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As a long time tech user within about 5 years of retirement, I don't quite agree with this for a couple of reasons. Tech is fine if its tech that serves me. I'm certainly not going to be doing JIRA updates in retirement, but I'll absolutely use a web browser, word processor, and probably a coding environment for my own personal projects. Retrocomputing is much more appealing to me too.

Also, I think most folks in IT have no idea how hard farming actually is, both mental and physically. Farming is really hard work, and having to manage some of the same annoying things we deal with in IT such as following complicated regulations, dealing with asinine people in power over you, and delivery dates.

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[–] abaddon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

The problem with tech is that you aren't usually doing the thing that made you want to go into tech. For me this was creating things and solving interesting problems. Most of my days are meetings, dealing with clueless people and having to deal with leadership and product team changes that ruin already completed work. Thankfully being at large tech companies has enabled me to hopefully retire in my early 40s. I can then continue with tech in a way that is meaningful to me while also spending a lot more time outside. The PNW is beautiful and I intend to see much more of it .

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Definitely not everyone :) I am bad at agriculture, even worse at raising animals, so computer it is for quite a long while from now. But I would really appreciate an opportunity to just sit by the sea and stare at it for days on end

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 20 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I prefer cabin in the woods, but my paycheck says small house in a shitty neighborhood.

[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 19 hours ago

great movie, too

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[–] FauxPseudo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I was a nix admin. For two decades. Printers are banned in my house. My only IoT device is a Roku stick. I have 6 geese, 4 ducks, 14 chickens, too many cats, one acre, a number of raised beds, fruit trees and grape vines. I'm now a handyman.

I fit the profile.

[–] melfie@lemy.lol 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I work in tech and a lot of my interests are geared around computers. I have other interests as well, and also enjoy being outdoors, but can’t imagine never wanting to see a computer again.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

Best I could do is maybe never wanting internet again.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 days ago

Honestly it's just the Internet. Tech is fucking awesome, as long as it's decoupled from anything and anyone else trying to control, monitor, impose, or otherwise fuck with the tech that's mine, bought or built fairly. And also the untold psychological torture the Internet is just constantly inflicting on us.

[–] BilSabab@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

It was a thing in Ukraine during the 2020-2021 boom. the sheer amount of engineers who saved up enough money to buy a house in the nearby village communities before the 2022 invasion was legit insane. part of that was remote work, part of that was interest in growing your own things. i remember talking to one NLP engineer who legit planned an apple garden and wanted to transition into that business domain over time. in some other cases, folks wanted to have self-reliant sustainability (yeah, we kinda had doomsday preppers).

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

In IT for over 30 years… 💯 %

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Lie.

It's the fucking users i want away from

[–] dwzap@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Can confirm. I’ve been working in tech for 16 years. I now own a house in the forest.

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[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Yes and no. Just like John Wick still had his hitman tools hidden in his house, tech workers who say they want to buy a farm and be a luddite will not be able to resist having a hidden server closet in their farmhouse.

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[–] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 29 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Well, it's driven me to Debian.

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