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[–] halvar@lemy.lol 68 points 2 months ago (1 children)

who put political wisdom in my trans shitposting lemminity

[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 36 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Oops, it was me :3

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 42 points 2 months ago

This goes hard af

[–] undergroundoverground@lemmy.world 35 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The most gilded cage in human history. More than pretty enough to fool the labour-cattle. Worse than not noticing, many have fallen in love with their chains and there's nothing more pathetic than someone who loves their chains.

To head off the inevitable "go live in the woods then." Do you not see the problem with your only two options being either working 80% of the time you're awake as an adult, for predominantly someone else's gain, or go live in the woods as an outcast? It's not really a choice is it? People don't mind contributing to society, hospitals, roads, schools etc. It's filling pockets of the already wealthy that people take issue with.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Going out into the woods isn't even a choice. The woods where? Without owning land the state is gonna come knocking telling you what you're doing is illegal

[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago

You can stay in National Forests free of charge for dispersed camping, you just have to move your campsite at least every two weeks

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

okay but could I maybe stumble behind and feel the whip >.<

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This is not the fun kind of whip. After the revolution, we will still have the fun whips.

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

you ever been so bottom-brained that you don't even care that it's not fun?

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago

Not with whips, but, yeah 🤣

I am a wimp so it doesn't take much pain before it's no longer sexy 😢

[–] SmackemWittadic@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Did they get you to trade
your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
Did you exchange
a walk-on part in the war
for a lead role in a cage?

Pink Floyd - Wish You Were Here

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Come on you target

for faraway laughter

come on

You stranger

You legend

You martyr

and shine!

Pink Floyd - Shine On You Crazy Diamond (part I-V)

[–] derry@midwest.social 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

During the recording of the album Wish You Were Here (WYWH) ex band member Syd Barrett showed up. They didn't recognize him though because he had gained a bunch of weight and shaved off his hair. Shine On You Crazy Diamond is about him. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wish_You_Were_Here_(Pink_Floyd_album) Happy 50 years to WYWH!

Edit: in case it wasn't known Syd had mental health problems at the time. He was probably undiagnosed in his youth and just considered "a weird kid" and then took LSD as a young adult which most likely sent him over the edge.

[–] SmoothOperator@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

How will you know when you're free then?

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When you try to move where the walls and whip used to be.

[–] SmoothOperator@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

How do I know I've moved far enough? What if the walls and whip have just moved?

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 months ago

I guess you'll have to just keep moving. If you try your weirdest and meet no resistance ever, then I'd assume we're going in the right direction.

“The amount of eccentricity in a society has generally been proportional to the amount of genius, mental vigor, and moral courage it contained. That so few now dare to be eccentric marks the chief danger of the time.”

— John Stuart Mill

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 months ago

I think that going to extreme lengths to try to prove one's own freedom is just a convoluted way of caging yourself all over again.

It is important to keep moving, but it's got to be for more than just proving that you can. Figure out what direction you'd like to move, and then after you've started moving in that direction, keep asking yourself what it is that you want — the world can start to look quite different once you've moved, so being mindful about things is how you can keep moving in a manner that's true to you, even throughout all the change.

When we know that our choices are constrained in some way, it's easy to convince ourselves that we never actually wanted to go in that direction anyway, even if that's not true; sometimes that lie is more comfortable than reckoning with the reality of our chains. It can be hard to discern the truth of the matter in these scenarios. Freedom is not just a quality that's bestowed upon us, but an active skill that we can train, and with time and mindful effort, we can improve our ability to discern between all the places we're told we can go, and where we genuinely want to go. If it doubt, if you suspect that you're self-policing your wishes to avoid being disappointed by chains that you subconsciously feel are there, it can be useful to push in that direction, and see how it feels. Sometimes, you'll find that you were in fact free to go that way, but you actually didn't want to, in which case, you can just reroute, with greater knowledge of what you want. In other cases, you will confirm that there are indeed chains constraining your movement, which you'll have to figure out how to escape. Either way, you'll know more, and be better equipped to actually be free.

I don't think that we can ever move far enough to prove that we are free, largely because of what happens when we improve our capacities for things, including freedom. The more we grow, the more that becomes possible to us, and so our appetite for more freedom will always increase. This can be dangerous, because it can appear that the most effective way to enable our own freedom is by adding to others' chains. This isn't a sustainable strategy though, because it means that when we find a direction we wish to go but are unable to, there will be no-one to help free us. None of us are free until all of us are free

[–] klep@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

I have a collection of Rosa Luxemburg writings on my bookshelf. I need to pick that up when I finish Trotsky's History of the Russian Revolution.

[–] derry@midwest.social 4 points 2 months ago

Despite all my rage I'm still just a rat in a cage

[–] starik@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 months ago

The human condition. Try not eating for a day, or not breathing for a minute.

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

As so often times it happens
We live our lives in chains
And we never even know we have the key

[–] Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago

some aren't even locked but they still carry the chains