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Anyone else just sick of trying to follow guides that cover 95% of the process, or maybe slightly miss a step and then spend hours troubleshooting setups just to get it to work?

I think I just have too much going in my "lab" the point that when something breaks (and my wife and/or kids complain) it's more of a hassle to try and remember how to fix or troubleshoot stuff. I lightly document myself cuz I feel like I can remember well enough. But then it's a style to find the time to fix, or stuff is tested and 80%completed but never fully used because life is busy and I don't have loads of free time to pour into this stuff anymore. I hate giving all that data to big tech, but I also hate trying to manage 15 different containers or VMs, or other services. Some stuff is fine/easy or requires little effort, but others just don't seem worth it.

I miss GUIs with stuff where I could fumble through settings to fix it as is easier for me to look through all that vs read a bunch of commands.

Idk, do you get lab burnout? Maybe cuz I do IT for work too it just feels like it's never ending...

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[–] falynns@lemmy.world 28 points 6 days ago (3 children)

My biggest problem is every docker image thinks they're a unique snowflake and how would anyone else be using such a unique port number like 80?

I know I can change, believe me I know I have to change it, but I wish guides would acknowledge it and emphasize choosing a unique port.

[–] unit327@lemmy.zip 37 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Most put it on port 80 with the perfectly valid assumption that the user is sticking a reverse proxy in front of it. Container should expose 80 not port forward 80.

[–] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

There are no valid assumptions for port 80 imo. Unless your software is literally a pure http server, you should assume something else has already bound to port 80.
Why do I have vague memories of Skype wanting to use port 80 for something and me having issues with that some 15 years ago?
Edit: I just realized this might be for containerized applications.. I'm still used to running it on bare metal. Still though.. 80 seems sacrilege.

[–] lilith267@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 6 days ago

Containers are ment to be used with docker networks making it a non-issue, most of the time you want your services to forward 80/443 since thats the default port your reverse proxy is going to call

[–] Auli@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Why expose any ports at all. Just use reverse proxy and expose that port and all the others just happen internally.

[–] lka1988@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago

Still gotta configure ports for the reverse proxy to access.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 days ago

Reverse proxy still goes over a port

[–] zen@lemmy.zip 20 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yes, I get lab burnout. I do not want to be fiddling with stuff after my day job. You should give yourself a break and do something else after hours, my dude.

BUT

I do not miss GUIs. Containers are a massive win in terms because they are declarative, reproducible, and can be version controlled.

[–] mrnobody@reddthat.com 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, since Christmas, I more it sounds silly, but I've been playing a ton of video games with my kids lol. But not like CoD, more like Grounded 2, Gang Beasts, and Stumble Guys lmao

[–] zen@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

You're doing i right. Playing cool games with your kids sounds like a blast and some great memories :)

[–] lka1988@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 5 days ago

I don't run a service unless it has reasonably good documentation. I'll go through it first and make sure I understand how it's supposed to run, what port(s) are used, and if I have an actual, practical use case for it.

You're absolutely correct in that sometimes the documentation glosses over or completely omits important details. One such service is Radicale. The documentation for running a Docker container is severely lacking.

[–] BrightCandle@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I reject a lot of apps that require a docker compose that contains a database and caching infrastructure etc. All I need is the process and they ought to use SQLite by default because my needs are not going to exceed its capabilities. A lot of these self hosted apps are being overbuilt and coming without defaults or poor defaults and causing a lot of extra work to deploy them.

[–] qaz@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Some apps really go overboard, I tried out a bookmark collection app called Linkwarden some time ago and it needed 3 docker containers and 800MB RAM

[–] LemmyZed@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Found an alternative solution to recommend?

[–] qaz@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

No, but I'd like to hear it if anyone else finds one

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Databases.

I ran PaperlessNGX for a while, everything is fine. Suddenly I realize its version of Postgresql is not supported anymore so the container won't start.

Following some guides, trying to log into the container by itself, and then use a bunch of commands to attempt to migrate said database have not really worked.

This is one of those things that feels like a HUGE gotcha to somebody that doesn't work with databases.

So the container's kinda just sitting there, disabled. I'm considering just starting it all fresh with the same data volume and redoing all that information, or giving this thing another go...

...But yeah I've kinda learned to hate things that rely on database containers that can't update themselves or have automated migration scripts.

I'm glad I didn't rely on that service TOO much.

[–] BrightCandle@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Its a big problem. I also dump projects that don't automatically migrate their own SQLite scehema's requiring manual intervention. That is a terrible way to treat the customer, just update the file. Separate databases always run into versioning issues at some point and require manual intervention and data migration and its a massive waste of the users time.

[–] Dylancyclone@programming.dev 16 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

If you'll let me self promote for a second, this was part of the inspiration for my Ansible Homelab Orchestration project. After dealing with a lot of those projects that practically force you to read through the code to get a working environment, I wanted a way to reproducably spin up my entire homelab should I need to move computers or if my computer dies (both of which have happened, and having a setup like this helped tremendously). So far the ansible playbook supports 117 applications, most of which can be enabled with a single configuration line:

immich_enabled: true
nextcloud_enabled: true

And it will orchestrate all the containers, networks, directories, etc for you with reasonable defaults. All of which can be overwritten, for example to enable extra features like hardware acceleration:

immich_hardware_acceleration: "-cuda"

Or to automatically get a letsencrypt cert and expose the application on a subdomain to the outside world:

immich_available_externally: true

It also comes with scripts and tests to help add your own applications and ensure they work properly

I also spent a lot of time writing the documentation so no one else had to suffer through some of the more complicated applications haha (link)

Edit: I am personally running 74 containers through this setup, complete with backups, automatic ssl cert renewal, and monitoring

[–] meltedcheese@c.im 5 points 6 days ago

@Dylancyclone @selfhosted This looks very useful. I will study your docs and see if it’s right for me. Thanks for sharing!

[–] Jayjader@jlai.lu 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I hesitate to bring this up because you've clearly already done most of the hard work, but I'm planning on attending the following conference talk this weekend that might be of interest to you: https://fosdem.org/2026/schedule/event/VEQTLH-infrastructure-as-python/

[–] Dylancyclone@programming.dev 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

No that's totally fair! I'm a huge fan of making things reproducible since I've ran into too many situations where things need to be rebuilt, and always open to ways to improve it. At home I use ansible to configure everything, and at work we use ansible and declare our entire Jenkins instance as (real) code. I don't really have the time for (and I'm low-key scared of the rabbit hole that is) Nix, and to me my homelab is something that is configured (idempotently) rather than something I wanted to handle with scripts.

I even wrote some pytest-like scripts to test the playbooks to give more productive errors than their example errors, since I too know that pain well :D

That said, I've never heard of PyInfra, and am definitely interested in learning more and checking out that talk. ~~Do you know if the talk will be recorded? I'm not sure I can watch it live.~~ Edit: Found a page of all the recordings of that room from last year's event https://video.fosdem.org/2025/ua2220/ So I'm guessing it will be available. Thank you for sharing this! :D

I love the "Warning: This talk may cause uncontrollable urges to refactor all your Ansible playbooks" lol I'm ready

[–] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That's neat. I never gave ansible playbooks any thought because I thought it would just add a layer of abstraction and that containers couldn't be easier but reading your post I think I have been wrong.

[–] Dylancyclone@programming.dev 4 points 6 days ago

While it is true that Ansible is a different tool that you need to learn the basics of (if you want to edit/add applications), all of the docker stuff is pretty comparable. For example, this is the equivalent of a docker compose file for SilverBullet (note taking app): https://github.com/Dylancyclone/ansible-homelab-orchestration/blob/main/roles/silverbullet/tasks/main.yml

You can see it's volumes, environment variables, ports, labels, etc just like a regular docker compose (just in a slightly different format, like environment variables are listed as env instead of environment), but the most important thing is that everything is filled in with variables. So for SilverBullet, any of these variables can be overwritten, and you'd never have to look at/tweak the "docker compose." Then, if any issue is found in the playbook, anyone can pull in the changes and get the fix without any work from themselves, and if manual intervention is needed (like an app updated and now requires a new key or something), the playbook can let you know to avoid breaking something: https://dylancyclone.github.io/ansible-homelab-orchestration/guides/updating/#handling-breaking-changes

[–] mrnobody@reddthat.com 4 points 6 days ago

Yeah, self promote away lol

[–] moistracoon@lemmy.zip 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

While I am gaining plentiful information from this comments section already, wanted to add that the IT brain drain is real and you are not alone.

[–] mrnobody@reddthat.com 4 points 6 days ago

Haha, thanks! It's probably more problematic being a solo IT guy as it feels like I don't always have did dedicated time to get projects done. Part of why my lab is overkill is because I want something at work, so I spend a little time at home figuring stuff out, but, you know, family time n all...

Its still fun mostly, but work keeps assuming I must've freed up a lot of time in automating or improving stability so I keep being rewarded with more work outside of IT.

[–] termaxima@slrpnk.net 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

My advice is : just use Nix.

It always works. It does all the steps for you. You will never "forget a step" because either someone has already made a package, or you just make your own that has all the steps, and once that works, it works literally forever.

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[–] oeuf@slrpnk.net 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Check out the YUNOhost repos. If everything you need is there (or equivalents thereof), you could start using that. After running the installation script you can do everything graphically via a web UI. Mine runs for months at a time with no intervention whatsoever. To be on the safe side I make a backup before I update or make any changes, and if there is a problem just restore with a couple of clicks via my hosting control panel.

I got into it because it's designed for noobs but I think it would be great for anyone who just want to relax. Highly recommend.

[–] mrnobody@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

Apparently I'm more than noob level 😅 every time I try to get to Traccar, I get my gateway's landing page.

Regular Traccar uses port 8082 for the web and 5055 for app. I cannot get that either through domain (gateway) or lan IP (yunohost)

Normally I'd go 1.2.3.4:8082 (not my real lan IP) but Yuno seems to ignore that.

I'll do some more digging when I get home, I'm at work with broken concentration

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