I found this little article that lists out alternatives. The timing is is great & I hope it helps people out.
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At what point are we going to take responsibility and take action collectively to punish these mainstream platforms ?
Keeping it real
Good.
Discord is overused for help forums and wikis, which makes them extremely difficult to search and dependent upon third party software to be maintained. I hope this will force people away from that behaviour and back to good old fashioned messageboards that have been working just fine since at least the 80s
Teamspeak 6! Voice + Streaming. Selfhosting is also possible! You can also rent an instance from them for 4-5 bucks.
Americans- If you're thinking "this isn't so bad" please consider that all it takes is a teeny tiny, insignificant api added to the back end with absolutely no notice to users and suddenly the DHS has a database of dissenters, with cross-referenced IDs, photos of faces, chat history, link share history, raw uploaded photos, and approximate locations.
Say no to this. If you need a temporary alternative that's quick to get going, create a signal group chat with your friends.
Forget DHS or other government agencies, these companies have been shown to be untrustworthy stewards of our data from regular hackers.
I get that discord is used to groom kids and there is a very real risk to allowing children to use it unsupervised, but that means kids devices are the ones that need to be locked down, not the rest of the world.
☝️🤓 Discord said they're going to delete the data!

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The "someone" is referring to Discord, not you.
I dig your Netscape avatar
Discord said they’re going to delete the data!
Don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining
That joke is NSFW, please present facial verification and ID now or you will be banned and reported to the authorities!
Pain fucking ass but deleted my Discord account. Sure wish had a decent alternative. I see a lot of suggestions just don't which to try? Any that work great with Linux Debian?
Matrix
Stop a calling this "age.verification" and start calling it what it is, "identity harvesting".
Or "pre-planned doxxing"
As a generational discord hater, this pleases me.
I tried it recently, I used a temporary account for it. I think IRC is way more user-friendly: I wasn't allowed access to anything , for no stated reason. So as far as I'm concerned, Discord is where information goes to die. Too bad some project hide all of theirs there.