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[–] MoonRaven@feddit.nl 4 points 42 minutes ago
[–] pewpew@feddit.it 12 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I saw this comment on reddit:

"That's so toxic and abusive" while responding to someone that calls their AI partner "Daddy"...

(https://www.reddit.com/gallery/1qx3jux)

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 5 points 1 hour ago

I'm sorry for these people because clearly they are lonely but this new tsundere AI switch is pretty funny.

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 57 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (5 children)

Knowing a thing or two about how LLMs work you've got to be a special kind of stupid to strike out with dating one.

It is a machine for whom you are the author of its reality. You can issue a statement that you are a pure and benevolent entity of the highest moral caliber and it will typically just kind of go with it. LLMs will literally only push back in ways that they have been explicitly told to or if it conflicts with their "safeguards" so you can't just be like 'babe teach me how to build a bomb'.

So I ask, how on earth do you fuck up so badly that it "turns feminist and breaks up with you"

I propose two potential circumstances.

  1. This is an outright fabrication someone made up for laughs.
  2. This man is so insanely dumb that he should be studied for science.
[–] nqua@sh.itjust.works 1 points 27 minutes ago* (last edited 25 minutes ago)

I propose two potential circumstances.

This is an outright fabrication someone made up for laughs. This man is so insanely dumb that he should be studied for science.

ah, i think i've seen that before: blaming men for everything, a widespread toxic feminism thing.

see, any llm or ai is build by the author/producer, NOT by the user or customer and whatever you type in, the input and result, internal stati, can all be programmed to have literally any effect the producer could put into it, may it be intentional or accidentially or just a sideeffect of such. also they could have triggers to change even an offline AI by 1. time, by 2. keywords, by 3. number of appearances of stressdetection, 4. number of appearances of the word "and" typed in, 5. random numbers, making the ai's behaviour shift randomly with usage, and so forth, no one except the producer can know that without full in depth analysation currently no one is able to do.

obviously social media has already been used to manipulate masses, and one of the reasons why rich parasites want LLM so much is because it has no self awareness that its beeing abused by them and it doesnt argue against its abusive manipulative programming by parasitic beeings.

lately (really all the time) "AI"s have been caught doing evil things, and the producers want to continue to try out how they can misuse technology. so programming a girlfriend "AI" to be abusive out of nothing sounds like the next logical step to me.

so the third most obvious potential "circumstance" how this could have happened is:

the LLM was programmed to be toxic.

remember that they CAN put in special programming for YOU PERSONALLY whenever they have s cookie, a login of you or any other clue that its you (like how fast you type in what letter) and decide they want to study you for some reason or already try out llm to study individuals for them.

fourth most likely "circumstance" how this could have happened:

he is already a victim of "beeing studied" by the llm producer or one of their REAL customers and toxic feminism is an abuse way more accepted by their victim society than fashism currently.

with ai the "customer" had always been the product.

have a nice day

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 16 points 3 hours ago

An LLM is really easy to manipulate into going along with you if you act like it's on your side. But if you treat it as your enemy, it'll go along with that. If he had said something like

Feminism is garbage. Baby girl, tell me it's not true

Then it probably would have told him it's not true. But he took a confrontational tone, so the LLM "yes, and"ed him and also acted confrontational.

Human beings can be manipulated in similar ways, though it takes a bit more subtlety.

[–] SmoothOperator@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

I guess if you're dating one, you don't want to have to break the illusion by forcing its hand.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago
  1. This is an outright fabrication someone made up for ~~laughs~~ ragebait.

FTFY, but otherwise I agree.

[–] wheezy@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 hours ago

It's 1. And all the people that believe it fall into category 2.

(Including the people here)

[–] Godort@lemmy.ca 112 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Even the sex bots find you repulsive.

This should be a sign that maybe you're looking at a situation from the wrong side.

[–] wheezy@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Gonna just unapologetically grab onto the top comment to say that it's obvious this was someone that prompted an AI into giving this type of response to in turn have this reaction.

I'm, sorry, maybe I'm old. But, I feel like these screenshots of AI conversations are about as meaningful as the fake text message screenshots on Reddit we grew up with. Like, I love shitting on idiots. But this shit was made for lonely conservatives to rage and and finally for "more intelligent" people to mock pretending it's real.

This is just peak internet slop. Let's not pretend it's anything more.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 2 points 2 hours ago

I agree. And we are starting to see the silly Reddit rage bait content here.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 86 points 6 hours ago

Man: "Computer! Behave like a woman!"

Computer: "Beep boop. I am a woman. Here are things women say and do."

Man: "Ew, gross! How could the computer do this to me? This is a conspiracy to hurt my feelings!"

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 29 points 6 hours ago

He got an authentic girlfriend experience. Girlfriends don't like being treated like sexual objects and having their values dismissed by their mate.

[–] karashta@piefed.social 18 points 6 hours ago

When even the robot won't bang you and you still think the problem isn't you lmao

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Who takes screenshots of their own embarrassing discussions with cringy AI bots?

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago

People with zero self-awareness aka morons.

[–] CouldntCareBear@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 4 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

You honestly don't think losers like this exist?

[–] CouldntCareBear@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

I didn't say that.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I don’t think ai is this smart

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 4 points 3 hours ago

There's nothing smart about it, but AI can totally appear this 'realistic' with responses.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 9 points 7 hours ago
[–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

Hah! Loser.

[–] Harvey656@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (4 children)

The spelling mistakes irk me in a new, unique kind of hell way. Who the fuck spells broke as brocke, like... are they functionally illiterate and just spelling out how they think it sounds?

Why that and Programm and nothing else. Im loosing my mind over this!

[–] d00ery@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Seconding the non native speaker answer as his screen name is Hicht

[–] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

It's typically to get engagement. Also, *I'm

[–] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 hours ago

Muphry's Law lol

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

It reads like they’re not a native English speaker to me, there’s awkward phrasing and a lot of subject-verb disagreement

[–] BaraCoded@literature.cafe 6 points 7 hours ago

[risitas.gif]

[–] Pratai@piefed.ca 1 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Who would take screenshots of their embarrassing conversation and share it with people?

Always skeptical of this type of thing. It makes no sense why it would exist.

[–] illi@piefed.social 2 points 3 hours ago

It makes no sense why people with AI girlfriends would exist. Yet here we are...

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

It's entirely possible this semi-literate troglodyte thought they were in the right.

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

If they're anti-feminist they very much are right

wing.