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Came here expecting misogyny-adjacent comments.
...It met my expectations :/
This is a good thing if you ask most women
~~this argument can be applied to other situations.~~
~~Uber for whites only: "This is a good thing if you ask most white racists"~~
~~The gas chambers: "This is a good thing if you ask most Nazis"~~
~~Just to be clear, I disagree with both the above situations, I just think it's not a great argument.~~
~~Just to be clear 2: I also sympathise with women who feel uncomfortable being driven by a man.~~
Editing because I've thought about it and changed my mind.
My analogies are incorrect; A Nazi or Racist isn't the same a man or woman or a skin colour.
The real issue is, you can't speak for "most women" or "most men" or "most anything" without citing a source.
Building tools that simplify discrimination isn't a good thing (my opinion).
If you think this is justified because "men are dangerous" then you are
- generalising
- not realising that people are not evil (source Humankind by Rutger Bregman).
I don’t get why they don’t just make this a global option. Anyone can choose their preferred gender. Some women prefer women, some prefer men. Hell, some men prefer men.
I imagine lawyers are the biggest issue. Anti discrimination laws vary greatly by jurisdiction. This type of de jure discrimination against a privileged group to counter de facto discrimination against a marginalized one is the type of situation that is going to be thorny pretty much everywhere, with differing results everywhere.
Awesome, but they should also give men the option to choose to ride with a man.
There's already an app that does that.
It's called grindr.
They should make an app where you have to swipe right on your driver/passenger, and then the app notifies you and you can strike up a conversation and see whether or not you are compatible for ride-sharing.
I'm a man, but I also prefer women drivers. Their cars tend to be better taken care of and cleaner. they also do a lot better at respecting and pre-empting preferences in regard to heat/music. Maybe it's just my area, but I've actually never had a "normal" experience with a male Uber driver.
Either their car is all clapped out, it's dirty and smells bad, they'll be blasting MAGA rap, or they get real weird with the dropoff. (Like, bro my legs do function and I can walk across the street or down the block a little bit, it's ok, I gave you a different address from where I'm actually going anyway). Never had any issues like that with women as drivers.
I get that they're doing this for reasons of rider safety, but they should let both men and women express a preference.
Dunno what specifically they do that's weird around the dropoff but as a former Uber driver, I was just trying to make things as convenient as possible/get a good rating and/or tip from a clean and easy drop-off
Honestly, this should be a thing.
Someone at Uber watched Bojack Horseman…
I don't necessarily even disagree with this feature but I can't help but imagine the outrage if that was almost literally any other group of people.
I want to ride exclusively with bilingual Mongolian ginger Zoroastrian jazz enthusiasts over 5'10" to feel safe and demand a feature for me to do so.
Probably gonna get flak for this, but as a man, I have no issues if women want to stick with other women and I don’t particularly care if I have the option to pick whatever driver I want.
Obviously weirdness and sexual misconduct can occur to both men and women from both men and women, but it’s disingenuous as hell to pretend that men being weird or sexual towards women isn’t the most common by a colossal margin.
No flak. I was gonna post the same thing. Women deserve to feel safe too.
I don't think anyone worth listening about anything would find this problematic. It ain't women casually raping and killing, we all know that.
Maybe Uber should be responsible for background checks of their drivers and hold them accountable for their actions and be able to fire them for misconduct. But that might require hiring drivers as actual employees. And then Uber could issue company vehicles.
Oh wait, I'm describing taxi companies that already existed before Uber.
The fact that we allow Uber/Lyft to operate as a way to skirt regulations that were put in place to keep people safe, and then trust Uber will implement work around solutions like this is ridiculous.
Same goes to AirBnB
unless you've actually literally lived as a woman you cannot know the monumental amount of sexual harassment we face and fear on a day-to-day basis. doubly so for trans women. every single moment i am alone in public i am deathly anxious that i could be harassed (sexually or otherwise) or hate-crimed or whatever. and the worst part is, there's nothing i could do about it. the perpetrator would get away scot-free. the cops do not fucking care
however bad you think it is, it's worse. whatever you're imagining, it is exponentially more horrendous
So what happens when the rider can't find a ride because 99% of drivers are men and it's the middle of the night? We never ask the hard questions, do we? Should sex discrimination in employment be legal? I've always felt bad for male masseuses, nurses and childcare providers having to deal with additional scrutiny and having money taken out of their pocket not because of merit but because of gender.
Well they'll just show the no drivers available screen and give the rider option to widen the search criteria?
I assume they can still choose male drivers if there are no female ones available.
Lyft has been doing it for a while and it seems to work out.
This also boosts demand for women drivers
More women in the gig economy!
Maybe you should not be allowed to choose a lady gyno or any other dr too? Or massage therapist? Or therapist in general. Or hair dresser. Or fucking anything else, huh?
Come on…