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some scrapes and sore as fuck, but no broken bones and no broken noggin

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[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 73 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I flipped my bike in 2016 and my helmet saved me twice, once when it hit the asphalt, once when my bike came over and smashed into the top.

Split it almost comically in half.

I kept it on my desk when I worked on bikes. Every single person who bought a bike got interrogated about whether they have a helmet. Every single person got the lecture on helmet safety. If they seemed iffy or unconvinced, I'll ask them if they want this to be their skull instead. That convinced them every time.

Some people don't think you need a helmet until you fucking need a hekmet. But then it's too late.

Congrats o surviving the crash, make sure to replace ASAP! (though I doubt you need a reminder lol)

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 38 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I watched a guy fumble with his pedals at 0 mph, fall down and hit his head on concrete. Major Neuro trauma.

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[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

It was always wild to me that people just didn't want to wear them. Like. I like having a brain that functions. I do not give a shit about this idea of it not being fashionable. My brain is more important than fashion!

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 weeks ago

I've hosted some biking events with friends/youth groups/family and one thing I make clear is show up with a helmet or don't show up at all. With the caveat that if you don't have one, I have extras and will provide one if you need one, and I have bought helmets for people before because they couldn't afford one.

I don't care how you feel on your own rides, just wear a proper helmet. Or you don't ride with me.

As for fashion, my partner and I have matching helmets that match our usual riding gear, and i made them a 3d printed unicorn horn to stick on their helmet that immediately got stuck on and now I have to promise to make a new one for every new helmet they get. Personalize your helmet and who cares if it's fashionable.

[–] Seleni@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The excuse I hear the most often (aside from the whole ‘it doesn’t look cool’ thing) is that why should they wear a helmet; they’re safe, skilled cyclists; obviously they’ll only get injured if someone hits them, and that won’t happen because people are supposed to drive carefully.

I have to admit I never got this one either. My aunt got her bike tire caught in railroad ties and flipped. I skidded on some gravel and couldn’t recover in time. Even if you’re the safest, most careful, most skilled cyclist in the world, accidents can still happen.

Not to mention some drivers don’t drive safe! And even the ones that do might not see a cyclist, since cyclists are small and fast.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm a safe and skilled cyclist. But my society makes me bike at speed alongside cars, on infrastructure meant for cars. That's why I wear one. Cars will get you eventually, either the cagers themselves or some jacked up infrastructure they destroyed that never even had you in mind.

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[–] malle_yeno@pawb.social 48 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

And this is why my opinion of someone drops by ten points whenever I hear them make fun of someone for wearing safety gear

Remember: it's very hot to care about your own life and wellbeing~

[–] jumjummy@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There’s a saying with motorcycle riders called “dress for the slide, not the ride”

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

Also ATGATT (all the gear, all the time)

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

PPE is drip and you can't change my mind!

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

How do you keep track of all the different levels of respect and disdain needed to support this rating system? /s

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 32 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] teolan@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When someone asks why I always cycle with a helmet I always show them this video 😆

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 17 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Cycling without a helmet is truly one of those things that have literally no point. Like legit why would anyone do that. Its a 2 kilo thing you strap to your head that just instantly reduces the chance for you to die(i dont know the statistics for this but its like actually a huge reduction)

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As a member of Gen X, we didn't wear helmets as kids (because the helmet usually cost more than the bike) and the habit stuck for a lot of people.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

For me it's a habit, 80s kid, I just don't even think about it. I don't ride very often either, only a couple times a year and usually on paths. But that doesn't excuse it :(

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[–] teolan@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

While I wear a helmet almost every time I bike, I will never push someone to wear one if they're not convinced. Not cycling is almost always worse than not having a helmet. Cars are more dangerous, so is being sedentary.

The Netherlands, kingdom of cycling has almost no helmet use because the streets are safe and well designed.

By that same metric it would make sense to wear a helmet while walking, in case you slip and fall. Or While driving.

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

People in Netherlands commonly ride heavy, non aerodynamic bikes that would make the long, fast, hilly commutes we do in my city a fucking nightmare and at that slow speed you could see why someone would think not wearing a helmet was a chill move. I've, of course seen someone get their foot stuck in a pedal strap at a full stop, fall over and crack their head on a sidewalk, so there is no situation I would consider safe without a helmet on a bike.

[–] Damage@feddit.it 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

'cause it's hot and you have to carry it with you or store it somewhere

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

I just hook it onto my bike lock in a way that someone would have to cut the strap to get it off. Bike thieves are generally not the type to wear or care about helmets and someone who wants a helmet that bad either wouldn't cut it or they can fucking have it.

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[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

And of course, get a new one and destroy that thing so no one else wears it thinking they're safe. In a perfect world you wouldn't have to say it but this is far from a perfect world.

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 17 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Yeah, this is one thing that troubles me about biking. Even if the helmet never gets damaged, they are still effectively disposable and have something of a shelf life. Over time the little bubbles in the styrofoam pop, and the structural integrity degrades. So it's a good idea to get a new one at least every few years.

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

True! Mine's probably getting to the point where replacement should be considered.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They're effectively an externality of motornormativity, if you think of them that way their sustainability cost pales in comparison to what they're actually accommodating.

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 week ago

True, if I didn't have to worry about motor vehicles, I'd probably be a lot more lax about wearing helmets, and their design would probably differ too.

[–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Came here specifically to make sure this comment was made

oh for sure, the first thing i did was go to the shop and get a new one

Nothing like seeing a windscreen wiper shaped indentation in your helmet to reaffirm that wearing one was the right choice.

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

That was almost your calculator!

[–] brachypelmide@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 weeks ago

helmets FTW.

i still remember when i was walking around my countryside in november on some very slippery ice. expectedly, i slipped and fell straight on my head. the only thing that saved me was that i was still in my airsoft uniform from a match earlier that day, and the helmet absorbed the impact.

[–] Samsy@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 weeks ago

I know enough about bike helmets to realize that, in that situation, your brain would be scattered all over the ground if you weren't wearing one.

[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 weeks ago

I just rode 40 min not realizing my helmet wasn't buckled because I had a respirator for allergies and road particulate which has it's own chin strap

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I just wish I could find more stylish ones. Or more biodegradable ones. Or both.

Yeah yeah, I'll keep wearing them of course.

The thing that drives me crazy, and something I see way more often, is people riding at night with no lights. Terrible idea. Surround your shit with lights. Be a wheeling christmas tree if you have to, or it is only a matter of time before you will be hit.

Also rear-view mirrors are underrated, though I wish companies would manufacture ones that are more sturdy, less floppy.

[–] Beehaw_Girl@beehaw.org 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Biodegradable bicycle helmet:

[–] sukhmel@programming.dev 2 points 2 weeks ago

And more stylish

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

Alright, heading to the grocery store then...

[–] uniquethrowagay@feddit.org 6 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

I won't go back to riding without a mirror, not in the city at least.

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

Same. They should be on bikes by default.

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HELL YEAH safety

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] glibg10b@lemmy.zip 32 points 2 weeks ago

The curvature of spacetime caused the ground to accelerate towards OP

[–] cristian64@reddthat.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Out of curiosity, how fast were you and was it a casual ride?

At my average (or even maximum speed), it's hard to imagine that I would get to that level or damage on a helmet unless I'm run over by car.

[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 weeks ago

I broke my wrist and fractured 2 ribs doing 15kph. Also wore a helmet, can't remember how bad it looked, but had to be replaced.

It doesn't need much to be unlucky.

[–] teolan@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Glad you're OK

Over the last two years I fell twice. One was the only time I didn't wear a helmet, thankfully my head didn't hit but it could have and my neck muscles saved me (I know because they were sore the next day). The other fall my helmet hit the ground pretty strong but I didn't have a thing thanks to it.

[–] Avicenna@programming.dev 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

now imagine this but on your skull and you are forty so this will take five years to heal ~~completely~~ %95

[–] Fmstrat@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Why oh why is this not in a cycling community? Those poor neglected community souls!

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Absolutely. Cars and most country's nearly ubiquitous car-centric infrastructure transforms the otherwise harmless bicycle ride into a fraught and sometimes downright dangerous experience. Unless you have the luxury of living somewhere that has gone through the concerted political process of rejecting motornormativity and transforming your infrastructure to one that accommodates human-scale transportation (We're all looking enviously at you, Netherlands), helmets are just one of many externalities that we must shoulder as cyclists to accommodate our ultimately ruinous and unsustainable driving-as-default policies.

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