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[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 2 points 43 minutes ago

One woman's opinion:

Bigass muscles are hot on a guy with some body fat. Sumo wrestlers and rugby forwards are WAY hotter than bodybuilders.

The men who don't make a big deal out of it and then they take their shirt off and they're muscly, that's way more fun than a guy hanging out with his sleeves tucked up.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 11 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Wear nicely fitting clothes (tailored if you can get them), be warm if you’re approached, express genuine interest in what the other person is saying. Bonus points for sense of humor.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

This, but I've found you can also skip the clothes for most women. Your clean, normal clothes are fine. Women will look past that figuring they can fix it later. They hone in on the important things first, at least the ones with any experience.

[–] amgine@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

You mean my three wolf moon shirt and sweatpants won’t look bad? Score

[–] Smaile@lemmy.ca 15 points 5 hours ago

oh well, may as well enjoy the vibes.

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 13 points 7 hours ago

Every house party rofl

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 96 points 10 hours ago (3 children)
[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 50 points 9 hours ago (29 children)

I understand it’s a joke but I wanted to throw some other numbers out there for people to consider, since resistance training can massively improve your quality of life and it’s very common for people to believe it needs to be a full time job to see results. For disclosure, I am a trainer but don’t offer services via lemmy

But you can get head-turning, people-ask-you-questions-unprompted levels of muscular with <5 hours a week in the gym. And that’s the full time commitment for what I’d called a “serious trainee”, any more than that is mainly for people who simply love training as a form of recreation and actively want to spend more time lifting.

Most of my clients do 2.5 hours a week and still get great visual results, albeit more slowly. More importantly, you cash in on quality of life benefits with shockingly little weekly commitment. Even one session per week is enough to feel huge improvements in energy and endurance during day to day tasks, improve your metabolic health, improve your bone health, improve your mental health, as well as experience the whole cascade of improved injury outcomes (for example resistance trained individuals are less likely to fall, less likely to be injured if they do fall, and are more likely to make a full recovery if they do get injured).

It’s extremely worth starting, for all ages and genders. Again, apologies for being overly serious under a joke. I like to leave little comments like this under popular gym posts because it occasionally results in someone beginning or returning to training

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago (5 children)

Does it have to be with the gym? Is there anything that generally being active doesn't cover?

[–] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 hour ago

It's quite possible to do resistance training at home, and it's particularly affordable if you use resistance bands, which also take up extremely little space.

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Its about control. Being active is great overall but could leave some weak spots or even be wearing things out. Certain muscles might not get worked quite right or to their full range of movement. Working out with good technique and variety should hit all your muscles and identify any tight or painful spots you need to work on.

If you're after results, like increased strength, endurance, or a better physique, then thats where training comes in. You have to push to near failure to demand muscle growth. If you start biking 5 miles a day, those first few weeks and months you might grow a bit, but eventually that 5 miles won't be as challenging and you'll plateau in terms of strength and endurance. Thats where training, either training the muscles or doing more cycling, really starts to work. Thats how you grow and start improving again.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago

Joint health, bone density, and strength/muscle mass are things you will miss out on if, say, you just play ultimate frisbee. But getting stronger doesnt have to be 3 sets of 8 on bench. You can get essentially the same health benefits by engaging in sports that train strength, like martial arts, acrobatics, or rock climbing. That said, many people who do any kind of physical activity aggressively typically find that they enjoy lifting at some point in their athletic careers, as lifting itself can improve athletic performance and ward off sports injuries, due to the controlled and progressive nature of gym work, as compared to the more chaotic nature of real-world activities.

[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

A commercial gym is not necessary!

So “general activity” I can only assume is stuff like going on walks and hikes, playing sports, enjoying the outdoors, and so on. This will generally fall under the umbrella of cardiovascular exercise which is extremely good, and you should do

Resistance training is typically performed in much shorter bouts of intense activity. It’s very convenient in a gym, but you can do pretty much everything you need with the right setup (bench press is very similar to pushups, for example, which don’t require equipment.)

The biggest challenge outside of a gym is how to progress movements. For example, once you can do 50 pushups, how could you make it harder so that the movement would be appropriately challenging, and not take all day? And then another issue sometimes can be training the muscles of the back without equipment, typically done via pull-ups and rows.

But ultimately everything is doable! Check out the youtube channel “Hybrid Calisthenics”, he’s got a ton of excellent content aimed directly at this question. He also sells cheap gymnastics rings which handily solve the muscles-of-the-back problem, if you have somewhere to hang them from (even a tree!)

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[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 14 points 8 hours ago (4 children)

I know there's probably isn't your area of expertise, but I don't know where else to ask.

Are there any gym memberships out there that aren't completely sketchy and impossible to cancel?

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Find a locally owned gym. Ask what their policy is on day passes, month to month, contracts, etc. The cost will be a bit higher than Planet Fitness, but they probably won't screw you, and the community tends to be way better.

Also, if you want to get fit, I highly recommend finding a gym that is either "fun" or offers classes. Rock climbing, gymnastics/acrobatics, martial arts, etc tend to be more fun and engaging than showing up 3 days a week to do 3 sets of 8, and if your goal is to just generally get fit and healthy. For that matter, there are also often groups meeting up all over cities for free or cheap to run, cycle, walk, boat, play sports, etc. And if you're really dedicated to some kind of lifting, having a time and place to show up, where you know you will see friendly faces trying hard together is far more likely to keep you consistent. This is why crossfitters are often ripped, despite crossfit being a dumb training philosophy - it got the fundamentals right: get people to show up consistently and try hard by making a welcoming community that gathers at a regular time and place. Often powerlifting, oly lifting, kettlebell, strongman, and off-brand/crossfit-style gyms will offer regular classes where people train together for this very reason.

[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago

Definitely, and actually you would be surprised. A lot of places introduced no-contract memberships after covid. Lots of places went out of business too, then all that equipment went up for sale for cheap and lots of new places ended up opening.

But the main thing to look for is small, privately owned gyms. I can really only speak to my area, but I have several. The most common arrangement is simply that you pay monthly, can cancel any time you want, but every time you sign up again there’s a sign-up fee. One other place I know simply charges an extra $10 per month for a no-commitment membership.

Keep an eye out, again for smaller privately owned commercial gyms in general, but also for specialized gyms such as those that cater to powerlifting, olympic lifting, or strongman. Usually they are lacking in “amenities” that drive the price up, and are less likely to have predatory subscription schemes in general. The only downside is that these places can seem very intimidating at first, but the community is likely to be very welcoming

[–] dgdft@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

As a sweeping generalization, this is only a problem with chain gyms.

If you need a solid litmus test though, call them during core hours and ask for a quick tour. Nearly all indie gyms will let you pay for a day pass or similar if you’re new (though that isn’t always part of their posted rates). If they won’t let you test the waters without signing up for recurring payment, it’s not a gym worth going to.

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[–] THE_GR8_MIKE@lemmy.world 20 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Same with having a nice car lol

[–] FUCKING_CUNO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 hours ago
[–] codexarcanum@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Wear a nice wrist watch. Not a smart watch, something classy. I have one as a gift and I get compliments from other (arguably straight) men all the time. I have never had a woman mention it (I have had women compliment my shoes, shirts, glasses, etc, so this isn't a " zero sample size" issue either.)

[–] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 1 points 1 hour ago

wrist watches are a method of capitalism to suppress your free time by reminding you of "the schedule" all the time, i.e. you should be working (and productive!) instead of going for a hike and forgetting time

[–] bravesirrbn@lemmy.world 11 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

What kind of shoes, shirts, glasses etc. do you wear? Asking for a friend

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 8 hours ago

Crocs, tweed, wraparound bifocals.

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[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 54 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Now you just need a Harley and you will never see a woman again.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 18 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Lol. Got moto as a chick magnet. Instead it just attracts middle aged men.

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Its cause you got it for the wrong reasons. Its more attractive when you got the bike for the bike and yourself.

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[–] Angryhumanoid@fedinsfw.app 36 points 10 hours ago

Yeah, that's why I NEVER work out, so I won't get distracted by other dudes when I'm trying to attract ladies! Wait, I think I see a flaw in my logic....

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

This also works with Beard Bros. You'll have all the men giving you compliments and women asking you to shave it.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

See what you gotta do if you want ladies is grow a mustache. Ladies looooove a stache.

Source: am lady. Love stache.

[–] IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtf 20 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

do not let this stop you from growing a giant white beard that reaches your knees

[–] sorrybookbroke@sh.itjust.works 16 points 9 hours ago

The beard is for me, not them

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 14 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Lol. I love this joke.

But also, I feel the need (a crime in the shitposting community, I know) to point out that, in fact, most women find muscles on men attractive, and if you are a man trying to attract women, while getting jacked isnt the end-all-be-all, you could certainly have a worse strategy. If you don't believe me.... well, go bench 225 and cut down to abs and get back to me.

If you are benching 225 and have abs already, then the problem is much simpler. The reality is, the modal woman interested in men finds stereotypically masculine things hot - being jacked, riding motorcycles, being able to fight, making lots of money, being good at sports, being a leader, etc. But all of these things are sort of like making upgrades to your car - you can do an engine swap, upgrade the suspension, replace the exhaust, add a spoiler, and put flame decals on the wheels. But your car isnt going to go anywhere if you don't take your key and put it in the ignition. Similarly, being really hot and attractive in a bunch of different ways isn't going to get you laid if you can't meet a new woman and ask if she wants to bone without being weird about it.

Which - funny enough - is illustrated in this very comic. Gym bro hits the gym, walks out expecting girls to fall all over him, and gets no response because he doesn't talk to them.

[–] gray@lemmy.ml 10 points 8 hours ago

You'd think this would work out if you're gay. But no, you just get lots of attention from straight guys...

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