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[–] Snapz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Did they actually pour colored concrete and not just paint? Awesome if so, makes them work for their performative hatred at least when removing.

Closeted cowards.

[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 16 points 3 hours ago

Sometimes the point of a protest is to put yourself in a position to get knocked down.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 hours ago

Daniella Mestyanek Young, aka Knitting Cult Lady observes authoritarian movemens hate color and seek to deface all public art and expression that doesn't specifically belong to or represent the movement.

I've always seen the Thin Blue Line flag as the diametric opposite of the Pride flag.

[–] TaterTot@piefed.social 39 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

This mindset always frustrates me.

Of course it was performative, all public art is performative. This is no different than tv promoting the "traditional american family", or statues "honoring the troops", or memorials, or any other art promoting propagandized values.

But life imitates art. Even if the intent was insincere pandering, it still has an effect on how people perceive their society. We should want our propaganda to reflect our values. We should want statues of MLK and Harvey Milk instead of Robert E Lee and Jefferson Davis. We should want rainbow streets and pride flags in public spaces. We should want their agenda to match our values. We should want the next generation growing up in a society that shows it's support for marginalized people, instead of nationalism.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 9 points 2 hours ago

It took me a long time to get that, but I really feel it. Like, don't get me wrong, putting up a rainbow crosswalk doesn't mean much if the government that does it is v coding trans prisoners, but the statement "these people had to fight for their rights, and we're glad to call them our neighbors" is still important.

And hell stuff like this adds to the vibes in the same way having a bunch of Chinese aesthetic in Chinatown does. Yeah, you should make the gayborhood feel like it. And while you're at it hire black artists to help beautify the blacker parts of town. I actually used to live in a neighborhood with a ton of black art and it absolutely made it a nicer place to live, even as a white person.

[–] rarbg@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Is this a state roadway? If not, crazy that the state has the authority to do this.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

TXDoT is responsible for a LOT of roads within cities - especially those with heavier traffic.

The (much smaller) city I work for only has like 2 intersections with enough traffic to require a signal that don't involve a TXDoT road.

[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 32 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

In my country people, especially teenage boys, try to avoid walking over the rainbow crossings. Since they don’t want to be seen as gay, because other boys will call them gay if they walk on the rainbow. My country is the Netherlands btw.

Yes they might be pandering but they also reveal how people in society still have ingrained bigoted views. You can only really tackle these shortcomings in society if they reveal themselves.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 hours ago

Damn that's surprising, I always thought the Dutch were some of the most tolerant people around. Y'all do have some crazy right wing politicians thought.

pandering was always pandering,

But pandering is a great canary

[–] luciole@beehaw.org 47 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

For me the LGBTQ colours displayed by the city are meaningful. It feels safer gay kissing in a square painted with rainbows, sitting on pink benches. It made it easier to ease into my own self. It’s like a big sign saying "IT’S OK".

[–] tmyakal@infosec.pub 20 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

My city put a rainbow-themed art installation in the most heavily trafficked park in the city back in 2019. It was supposed to be there for one year, as a temporary memorial to the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. It's been there for 7 years now, and half the city would lose their minds if someone tried to take it down now.

[–] Malgas@beehaw.org 5 points 3 hours ago

It's neat how "temporary" installations can become part of the identity of a place. The Eiffel tower was also supposed to be temporary.

[–] Zagorath@quokk.au 72 points 9 hours ago

Both can be true. The installation can be a bit naff, but the choice to remove it is an act of deliberate hatred.

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago

This is how I find out that my city has/had a pridewalk?!

[–] mkwt@lemmy.world 12 points 7 hours ago

They did this to Houston, but they did an extremely half-assed job. It was one thin layer of additional asphalt covering over the whole intersection. But you can still see the pride crosswalk peeking out from underneath at the edges.

I'm still very upset.

Especially now that the sidewalks have been defaced with hate messages, which were then blacked out with spray paint. Is there a way to get the spray paint off the concrete and go back to chalk?

[–] Micromot@piefed.social 142 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

They are just like rainbow capitalism. They don't improve the rights of anyone but they are an indicator of the acceptance.

[–] isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Public symbols matter. If they didn't, the right wouldn't feel the need to target them. You dismiss public symbols of acceptance as if they're not vitally important. I imagine if the symbols that represent you, your background, and your beliefs were targeted, suddenly you wouldn't be dismissing them as irrelevant.

Public symbols and rights are not disconnected. There's a reason they advance or retreat in lockstep.

[–] Micromot@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago

But they... Represent me. And I think they are important. But I know they wouldn't be displayed or used by governments or companies when the public opinion wasn't already mostly positive.

Symbols used by individuals or groups outside of government or companies are different because they serve as identification.

As an example, in germany we have a lot of pride symbols but the government still puts trans people that change their name on a list. Symbols used by companies/government react to change and don't cause it

[–] AmyAye@nord.pub 25 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Exactly. People are all "TaRgEt jUsT waNtS yOuR mOnEy."

Well, yeah, but also it just shows an overall acceptance. It makes people more at ease in general. It lets non queer people also feel more open to showing support. It's about the overall mindset of society.

[–] SpikedIguana@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

But target literally played both sides

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago

Yeah, having it and taking it away is worse than never having it at all.

[–] YourNetworkIsHaunted@awful.systems 46 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Right? Easy to overstate the value of it as we see now, but it sure was nice being a demographic worth pandering to, especially when that meant that the homophobes weren't worth appeasing.

[–] Micromot@piefed.social 17 points 8 hours ago (21 children)

It was a good feeling but always had the aftertaste of instantly disappearing when the political wind changes. We will sadly never truly be free under capitalism

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

They have us fighting over crosswalks while our house burns down.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

As if the queer people they've marginalized in the work force even have houses. As if more kids won't be bullied because it's official government policy to hate gays. As if a generation of queer people will struggle to discover themselves, never seeing themselves represented because we are forced to hide ourselves from view.

It's not about the crosswalk, it's just one particular facet of fascist oppression. It isn't a distraction and it doesn't invalidate any of the other harm they caused.

[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

you have to become the bully. Just need one generation of LGTQB to get really petty and beat the bigots at every game they consider to be their domain.

[–] Midnitte@beehaw.org 20 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Threatened by some colors - truly pathetic

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