I'm male and had a similar experience with women doing that when I wore a kilt to a club once.
And just to be very clear, I'm not defending anyone of any gender who does that at all. And in no way saying women touching men is as big a problem, most women have experienced it while only a minority of men have. Your comment just made me remember it, it wasn't fun.
Several new or in-development games have it. I'm playing Enshrouded right now and it's really impressive how good both the destruction and the building is, easily the best I've ever seen. And they just showed off the upcoming update with full water physics:
https://youtu.be/vBAnTKGioq4
The lighting is also superb, IMO, though I'm not sure if it's actual ray tracing or not.