The first time I allowed myself to wear a dress when I first saw myself in the mirror as a woman I immediately understood how it feels to identify with your body. Before I would always say I am not a body I only inhabit it. But as soon as I could see myself as a woman something clicked in my brain and for the first time I felt like I was that body. Before that I didn't even know that was something one could feel. So at least for me gender is very real.
cathray
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My home server is my pet! Yesterday I migrated my nextcloud from docker compose to kubernetes (k3s). That's like playing with your cat or taking the dog for a walk.
I always replace onions with fennel in every recipe. I have yet to find one where that wasn't an instant improvement. I honestly don't understand why people eat onions when fennel exists.
Unfortunately I can't help you there. I still remember wanting to dress super cutely feminine only to look into a mirror and find myself too masculine to pull it off and sadly changing to wear something else. Or the first time I tried to wear heels only to get scared after a few steps outside and hurry back inside to change. Only facial feminisation surgery did it for me and now I know I pass.