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I'm just saying: as a guy, this is not the only double standard, and not the only thing that people see as "you did it once so you're $thing forever" that guys go through.
It's probably one of the most notable though.
As men, we deal with a lot of judgemental shit and we're expected to deal with it "like a man"... Whatever the fuck that means.
Another good example of this is crying. If you have a mental breakdown and fall into a crying fit, people will brand you as a cry baby or some shit, and that will stay with you for a long ass time.
There's so much more. I don't have time to think of, nor detail any of it. Any fellas that have examples, I invite you too add them in reply. Ladies, you can too. And anyone else can, honestly; let's not forget our non-binary family.
I'm glad I'm not your friend.
Wild thing to say after expressing one of the most childish opinions I've ever seen.
I'll make sure that next time a loved one dies I'm not in public!! Just because some dude finds it uncomfortable to see other people be sad or upset. I'll call my mom now, let her know she can only die when I'm at home in private.
You defeated your own point
"If any of my friends are stressed and pushed to the breaking point, they need to schedule their mental breakdown in advance for a place and time when I am not around so they don't inconvenience me."
That's more or less what you sound like
my nephew was murdered, I helped raise him as a teenager while my brother was in the military. I cried in front of my "friends" and they judged me. They are no longer my friends. Terrible people. just like you