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Please don't expect the community to give you answers to your questions which you then delete right afterwards. Those of us who put time into answering your questions are not doing so just to serve your personal needs, we are here to help build a community knowledge base that others can search and reference.

This has become a chronic issue with Lemmy and its starting to feel like it's a waste of time to answer questions.

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[–] BillyClark@piefed.social 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Realistically, a platform where you can delete your own questions so that they disappear for everyone isn't the best platform for technical support communities. But a platform where you can't delete your own posts is not the best platform for for a lot of other things, like privacy.

Two use cases without overlap seems like a good argument that there should be two different platforms.

[–] Womble@piefed.world 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Fediverse is not private in any sense. Anything you post (or up/downvote) is blasted out to every federated instance and only gets deleted if that instance respects the delete command, which you cant rely on.

[–] bilb@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Too many people are ignorant of this.

I have a belief (not based in law, just my personal feeling) that once you post something in a conversation in a public forum, you no longer have any natural right to control it. By posting it in a conversation on the public internet, you have, in a practical sense, waved any right to control it. That is a part of a conversation that belongs to the public, and you gave your comment away freely. It is public record. You cannot demand that it be forgotten or erased any more than I can demand that something I said to my friends yesterday be forgotten and erased.

If I hosted a forum, I would make it clear that this is the policy, and I would not allow people to delete comments that they posted. Edits would be allowed, but the history would be available. Deletions would only ever happen if I was legally compelled.

This all gets complicated if someone posts private information about a third party. I would rapidly delete such posts and ban such users. The third party never consented to anything, so it's not the same.

[–] TheTetrapod@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Fully agree. I wish people hadn't started using their real names on the internet, it's made privacy so much more of a concern than it had any reason to be in the age of @GoombaStomp69.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 days ago

Better than fucking Discord. I won't even engage with a project that uses Discord as it's support channel. Fuck that.