Yeah. I think it comes down to the absolutism. They almost certainly ate some amount of meat/animal products themselves, but once they arrived at their current principles, they have no more understanding for it. Rather than remember that they too had to learn/work to get to their understanding, they see you as an enemy for not sharing it. Of course I mean if you offer even the slightest pushback.

I've reduced my meat intake by a lot and I agree with what you wrote here. If vegan food was widely available everywhere I'd probably eat WAY less animal products. But dozens of vegans online have given no shits about that, whereas a reasonable person would, and would have some level of empathy toward not being 100% with them on everything they say in terms of applying the knowledge. I totally get wondering how a person could acknowledge animal suffering and still participate in it. I've examined myself over that one hundreds of times now. But it's the reality, it's where I'm at. And I should be able to talk about it without an automatic assumption that I'm a thoughtless monster who is trying to tear down their worldview. I'm not. Is this about me personally? I'm talking about so obviously yes it's sorta personal that I have these unpleasant and unproductive conversations on the Internet sometimes, but I truly would rather them not happen for anyone else either. For the toxic assholes who really do want to tear down veganism, they're worse people, but I already knew that. For the vegans spewing hatred at all the "carnists" I expect better and I think I'm right to. They changed their lives for a good reason. Now why the fuck can't they talk about it the majority of the time? It's frustrating.