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It’s tough not to form a superiority complex these days when you hear of people who can’t compose emails by themselves.
Yeah, and I think it's a symptom of a cultural problem where people think prosperity means essentially not having to do anything. The ideal is to sit on your ass and consume, while never having to create.
But when you don't do anything for yourself and have AI or hired help do it so that you can go back to scrolling the dopamine treadmill, you eventually don't know how to do it even if you wanted to. Losing knowledge, skills, and attention span means getting more stupid, kinda by definition.
This negative feedback loop is a form of conditioning, and it is not in our best interests. It is in the interests of advertisers, psychological manipulators, tech barons, and others who are generally the worst.
In my case, the more I have consciously decided to take care of my own shit -- in various aspects of life -- the better I have felt. It's not the one secret to a fulfilling life, but it's an important one. And yes damn it, I sometimes use dashes.
My boss had three of us on a Teams call for nearly an hour and a half yesterday because he needed our help to make one Power Point slide.
To be fair, power point - if you don't regularly use it and especially if you're using a 'template' someone made - is a miserable experience.
Add four words to a sentence - why did the fucking font size change and why did an unrelated text box shrink?!?!? I just need to add 'this has been approved' to my status deck.
Why can't I update a blob of text? Oh, it's in the Slide Master, which has exactly one instance of this slide type in the deck.
/rant. I haven't lowered myself to using copilot to make these changes, though.