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[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Try setting a tunable of:

net.link.ether.inet.max_age = 540

By default FreeBSD sets a 20 minute ARP maximum age while many ONT’s set a 9 minute maximum age. This will show up as performance issues initially then cause other issues.

Also Realtek NIC's are notorious for issues with FreeBSD, so if you are using one replacing it with an Intel one is highly recommended.