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What if it isn't everyone who uses a word "wrong"? What if it's say 25% of people who use it incorrectly? Should you encourage them to use it correctly?
If there are two different ways of using the word and they could be mistaken for each-other that's bad. Once the use of a word has flipped and means something very different from the original (idiot, gay, etc.) then there's no reason to try to return to the original usage. If the usage is still in dispute and the majority of people use the word in the original meaning, I think it's good to discourage people from using the word incorrectly so that people are still able to understand each-other.
But the disputes occur because people use the newer, less common meaning until it becomes more common. If you discourage people from using the word "incorrectly" but it eventually evolves in meaning through usage because people ignore your encouragement to return to the original meaning, then you'd just be on the losing side of the battle historically.
I feel like it should be much more nuanced as to whether you encourage or discourage change. People reclaiming or usurping derogatory terms as a big FU to bigotry? Awesome. People twisting words for the purposes of oppressive, deceptive, or marketing purposes? Nope.
The reason behind the change should be preferably be intentional, backed by goodwill, and done in order to increase ease of communication because the old meaning/usage wasn't sufficient.
But language is a shared medium and a lot of intention falls by the wayside because of random quirks as much by intentional campaigns.
And we can work to stop it from becoming more common by nipping it in the bud.
At least you turned up to the fight.
Which is why change should be gradual and limited, otherwise two people who use that language are unable to clearly communicate.
But, you're just one person. You won't be present for 99.9999%+ of newer usages of terms, so you'll be impotent to effect much change on the matter. With the level of illiteracy and the anti-intellectualism that seems rampant these days, even having a widely read column on a popular platform might be insufficient to turn such a tide. Maybe at best you'd be a screenwriter for a Hollywood blockbuster that a decent portion of the population watches and you could hope for the best, but even that seems weak considering we collectively don't even remember movie lines accurately ten or twenty years later.
But, together we're 2 people. And we can recruit more to the army.
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