this post was submitted on 17 Jan 2026
1453 points (99.1% liked)
memes
18987 readers
2091 users here now
Community rules
1. Be civil
No trolling, bigotry or other insulting / annoying behaviour
2. No politics
This is non-politics community. For political memes please go to !politicalmemes@lemmy.world
3. No recent reposts
Check for reposts when posting a meme, you can only repost after 1 month
4. No bots
No bots without the express approval of the mods or the admins
5. No Spam/Ads/AI Slop
No advertisements or spam. This is an instance rule and the only way to live. We also consider AI slop to be spam in this community and is subject to removal.
A collection of some classic Lemmy memes for your enjoyment
Sister communities
- !tenforward@lemmy.world : Star Trek memes, chat and shitposts
- !lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world : Lemmy Shitposts, anything and everything goes.
- !linuxmemes@lemmy.world : Linux themed memes
- !comicstrips@lemmy.world : for those who love comic stories.
founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
This is honestly so heartwarming. Adult dudes have such a hard time meeting other guys, this actually makes me happy seeing two dudes just meet and say hello
I met a fellow in my neighborhood by happenstance. We happened to be crazy similar. He was really cool.
I felt bad not really getting around to checking in on him more often. I was shy and afraid of what I didn't know, or making a fool of myself. But damnit he was a really cool guy...
Occasionally I'd catch him with his garage door open and we'd have a chat. (You gotta understand, nobody interacts in this neighborhood.) We met because I was out running in the rain like a crazy guy (we rarely get rain lol) and HE decided to introduce himself to me as I ran by his house LOL.
So anyway...I saw he hadn't responded to my Merry Christmas text.
...And just a week ago or so I got a text from his wife that he had passed away from an aneurysm 4 months prior.
When I brought her flowers for him, she told me he had said that he thought. . .that I was very cool. . .
Why I'm sharing this:
I know it's awkward sometimes trying to make new friends as an adult, but also it's foolish to simply assume tomorrow is guaranteed. Do that hangout. Plan the game night. Talk about random stuff in the backyard. Whatever.
You will never regret more time spent in fellowship and good company.
I would have been a really good friend to him if I just reached out more...
The loneliness epidemic is absolutely real, and this isolating society is killing us all by design and it breaks my heart.
That is all.
Thanks for sharing that story, we should all try to get to know our neighbours a bit Better.
Wow, this comment chain went from heartwarming to depressing real fast. I'm sorry you lost your friend.
That's true, but internet pseudo-feminists seem intent on declaring that the loneliness epidemic isn't real and is just made up by the manosphere to oppress women.
(This isn't a statement against feminism, but the idea that anything that hurts men is feminist isn't really feminism)
Hah, sorry, I didn't mean it to be depressing. True, I was kinda venting a painful experience but . . .my sincere hope is that someone might learn from my mistakes, and finally stop putting off spending time with people who matter to them.
There will always be excuses to put it off til "next time", "one day", "eventually...", but we don't have forever to get over them, and we need our fellows more than we ever have.
And yeah, the terminally-online are a frightening combination of "ferociously bitter" and "obsessed with being 'a part of something'", that they actually rejoice in the suffering of others as if oppression is some kind of football game.
I want no part of whatever someone like that is selling.
If I could get them to realize one thing, it would be that feminism isn't about women participating in patriarchal structures of oppression as oppressors; it's about abolishing patriarchal structures of oppression.
If I got a bonus thing, it would be getting them to realize that patriarchy also harms men, that toxic masculinity harms men (and can be perpetuated by women), and that only a relatively small percentage of men can be categorized as "oppressors."
An oligarch is an oligarch, whether man or woman. And bullying a vulnerable man because he's an easier target than an actual oppressor is not "smashing the patriarchy."
Agreed
But dude should check in with his wife if he's just gonna not come home suddenly
Plot twist, he was the kidnapping target and he never returned from that bar
Jim and Adam now live near Seattle and adopted a dog.
Wife was already stalking his location, is fine
The real story is the women setting up their husbands with each other 🥰
When two straight couples become two gay couples. Tale as old as time.
Saying it in a positive way doesn't really make it better. Normalize men being able to enjoy each other's company without assuming they're falling in love or lusting after each other, sheesh.
But see, every human social interaction these days is viewed through the lense of "must have sexual undertones."
That's why it's hard to go in public/make eye contact with strangers without someone glaring at you and accusing you of something nasty...
Don't have time for too much complex thought right now but just wanted to say THANK YOU.
I feel like pop culture has really fed into this nonsense, where every scene between anybody is written/filmed as "ship-bait".
This idea people can't be friends without underlying sexual tension feels a lot like "you can't just enjoy something without putting it online and side-hustling it." And it sucks.
It feels like another extension of how everyone sees every single human interaction as transactional anymore.
Normalize men catching all kinds of feelings for one another.
it is normal, I just think its funny to suggest a romantic plot between the women to setup their husbands with each other
Hey, wanna hang out?
Do you have hotwings?
You'll have to tell me how hot these wings are.
Bird wings are hotter than bat wings, IMO.
uwu
Ngl I remember even highschool being a hell for making friends because there was this 70% they will turn out to be andrew tate fans after.