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Anyone else just sick of trying to follow guides that cover 95% of the process, or maybe slightly miss a step and then spend hours troubleshooting setups just to get it to work?

I think I just have too much going in my "lab" the point that when something breaks (and my wife and/or kids complain) it's more of a hassle to try and remember how to fix or troubleshoot stuff. I lightly document myself cuz I feel like I can remember well enough. But then it's a style to find the time to fix, or stuff is tested and 80%completed but never fully used because life is busy and I don't have loads of free time to pour into this stuff anymore. I hate giving all that data to big tech, but I also hate trying to manage 15 different containers or VMs, or other services. Some stuff is fine/easy or requires little effort, but others just don't seem worth it.

I miss GUIs with stuff where I could fumble through settings to fix it as is easier for me to look through all that vs read a bunch of commands.

Idk, do you get lab burnout? Maybe cuz I do IT for work too it just feels like it's never ending...

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[–] hesh@quokk.au 26 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

I wouldn't say im stick of it, but it can be a lot of work. It can be frustrating at times, but also rewarding. Sometimes I have to stop working on it for a while when I get stuck.

In any case, I like it a lot better than being Google's bitch.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

I have to stop working on it for a while when I get stuck.

I feel you there bro. Sometimes, when I'm creating a piece of music, I get to a point where, I'm just not making any progress, I'll step of for a piece, let it simmer for a bit. Same with servers in general for me. It's the reason I have a test server and have, in the past, leaned a bit heavily on a few backups. LOL! I can screw something up quick when I'm frustrated. The reward for me is learning something new. It's a rewarding and useful hobby for me. among others.

[–] mrnobody@reddthat.com 1 points 5 months ago

Good point. I think I've got so caught up between projects at home and work I need a break from both.