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Pretty much what it says on the tin, but for more context. My friends and I use Discord to play D&D and other TTRPGs. We also use it to send memes and just have conversations. We mostly do the chat, text, images, gifs, etc. But we also use the voice and video chat pretty regularly too. Screen share sometimes as well. So I'd like to try to find something that has all those features if possible.

The new ID or facial recognition requirement they are implementing is a deal breaker for a few of us, and so if I can set up some kind of alternative to make it a non-issue, I'd like to.

I'm running Ubunutu 22.04 LETS, AMD 3700X, 64GBRAM, 10x 6TB HDD, and and 2 4TB NVmE. Have a 2gb up/down internet connection. So I don't think we should have any issues making it work smoothly for 7 people.

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[–] hesh@quokk.au 20 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Honestly the name choice adds difficulty in getting friends to take it seriously. Why did they pick "stoat"

[–] Tetsuo@jlai.lu 34 points 1 day ago

Nowadays everyone accepted the name "Discord" but I think it's a pretty poor choice of branding too.

A communication app called Discord is pretty weird too.

A stoat is a pretty cool animal.

I think without prior knowledge of any voice chat Discord would probably rate worse in perception than Stoat.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 17 points 1 day ago (4 children)

you mean unlike the tools discord has replaced, such as "mumble", "ventrilo", "roger wilco" and "trillian"?

[–] autonomoususer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Mumble is a verb like chat but what the fuck has a stoat got anything to do chatting?

[–] lime@feddit.nu 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Discord never replaced mumble. The two are in different circles.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 1 day ago

for some, yeah. depends on your use case.

[–] hesh@quokk.au 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] lime@feddit.nu 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

soundn like a problem with your friends then. who doesn't love a stoat?

[–] hesh@quokk.au 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I know, it's picky lol. I'm still considering it as the replacement for my discord groups (also checking out Element/Matrix). The average users aren't going to be up for swapping around a lot of platforms, so I am hoping to make one big push on the platform of choice. "Revolt" would have gotten less "wtf is that, how do you even spell it?" than "Stoat"

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 1 day ago

for what it's worth matrix has worked well for us. it's apparently a bitch to set up though.

[–] quaff@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

No clue! It was revolt before. I think they had trademark issues with that name. What's wrong with stoat?

[–] SabinStargem@lemmy.today 1 points 20 hours ago

Personally, I associate stoats with Dwarf Fortress. And much butchering thereof.

[–] ttyybb@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

I was wondering why I want getting any updates, checked thegithub a few months ago and found out they rebranded. Haven't had a chance to try the latest version out yet

[–] lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 day ago

This whole "FOSS names are bad" sounds like a Mccarthyism sysop by this point. Like, really, who is pushing that crap?

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago

seems like they had a decent name 'revolt' but got some cease and desist and didn't resist and decided to switch.

[–] Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

The name doesnt matter

IRC is a stupid name too, unless you know what the letters stand for

Msn messenger was stupid

Icq was stupid

Wtf even is “skype”?

It just has to be unique

And a Stout is kinda cute

[–] hzl@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

What do you meeaaan? Stoats are fucking adorable!

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Stoats are awesome.