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Just hit them back with a different conversation than the one they wanted to have. I find" hi how's your day going?" isn't tangential enough, but if you know who they are then might try ask something a bit more personalised or even try and offload one of your problems onto them.
Chaotic good
If I'm feeling nice, I reply to those with " please lead with your question"
If not, I don't reply.
I'd say this works and should apply it at work.
But in personal comunication it can be badly percieved, you could be seen as that person who only talks to ask for a favor (wherever it is real or not).
But it can also be badly perceived when you go through the motions of exchanging pleasantries instead of just being up front about needing a favour. In either case, pleasantries are nice, but pleasantries that are being done just for the sake of pleasantries can be seen as rude and trying to establish needless or false familiarity.
The company I work for has a general guideline/policy to "don't ask to ask." I thankfully rarely experience this.
As long as it's just an "hi" you don't know what it is and have to assume it's super urgent. Once you answer, they can disclose the actual matter in its full mundanity, resting assured they have already confirmed your attention.
I just don't answer, lol
I just emote wave in response.
That's why I ignore them until they complete their message themselves. But someone else here linked "nohello.net", maybe I'll try that too!
I will obviously start by saying Hi, but I will also just say what I’m contacting them about in the first message.
Hey.
The company I work at emphasizes the up front contract in both internal and external communications.
"Hi, I need X minutes of your time to discuss Y. I intend for us to reach a decision/decide the next step next step/get your approval by the end of the call. Are you available at this date & time? Thanks!"