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[–] Maggie@thelemmy.club 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

We all need to adopt this attitude to clothes

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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I sew my clothes back together when they start to fall apart. Until they are so threadbare that there's not enough structure to hold a hole together. Then they become rags.

[–] Klox@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

"Home clothes", "repair clothes"? Nah. There's just clothes, and clothes my SO gets mad at if I get paint on them.

[–] SethTaylor@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I feel seen

I should probably go put on nicer clothes

Or you could stop looking. Either way's fine

[–] Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

For the same price, men's clothing are often far thicker with better quality fabric.

Next time you see a simple men's t-shirt, look at the equivalent for women. It's more expensive and thinner.

People always say 'vote with your wallet' as if women didn't already have to deal with the ridiculousness of non-standard sizes, bloating, bra compatibility, and constantly being heavily judged for appearances. Taking all of this into account, better fabric and pockets are a premium that can't always be afforded or not even offered.

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

What does my head in is the way so many casual clothes like t-shirts are pointlessly gendered. There's way more variance between one individual person and the next, versus the difference between men and womens' bodies as an overall group. There's plenty of top-heavy guys just as there's plenty of justice-chested ladies, so why not just market casual clothes based on what shape they are rather than what gender you should conform to in order to wear it, and let the customer decide whether a given design is too girly or manly for them.

Sports shoes are the worst offenders, because stylistically these days 98% of them look absolutely identical but are split by gender anyway for no fucking reason.

[–] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Sure, i do wear my clothes for a long time. But i'm still bored by the selection, and i wish skirts & thigh highs were more accepted in society.

[–] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Kilts and those long soccer socks is one way to work around that

[–] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

But those aren't pink or purple, and i'm no Scot.

[–] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 months ago

laughs in auld alliance

I'm afraid I can't do anything about the socks color though

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[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Or, Dog's New Sheets.

Yes, my das grabs his old shirts and uses them to cover the dog at its bed.

[–] FellowEnt@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 months ago

Protip, a pin badge works to cover those holes around the tshirt/shirt pockets. You can also learn to live with the holes below the belly button, especially if there's some crumpling going on down there. This further blurs the line between home and outside clothes and elongates your public enjoyment of holey clothes. For shorts, cotch holes adds some nice airflow, and once all socks are more hole than sock, you just switch to sandals.

[–] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 months ago

I could buy a New Outfit every day, but do exactly this. Well, minus the into-space-part 😁 Wifey has more bags in a specific color than I have clothes altogether... As long as it's somehow clean and doesn't reek, it's still fine.

[–] MrShankles@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I do have some gym shorts that are old enough to vote... I'm actually wearing them right now lol. They're not even bad off by any means (just a singular cigarette burn from college), but I've never had another pair last as long. They're not even any type of brand name nothing, just sturdy I guess... and oh so comfy!

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I definitely own a shirt that is "good enough to fall off a roof in" and half a t shirt in the wood shop I cut up for wiping on varnish.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

Then finally to fine microplastic mist.

[–] Kn1ghtDigital@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 months ago

Space! Of course!

I knew I forgot to look somewhere for that shirt... er, rag...?

Whatever I can still fix it!

Maybe...?

[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Depending on your style, the third tier work clothes can become outside clothes again. I've got paint stains on this old T-shirt that matches the paint stains on these 25 year old jeans that have a hole in the knee. Badge of honor, really!

[–] insomniac_lemon@lemmy.cafe 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My clothes are cheap, and my nicest shirts are half-plastic.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (3 children)

As someone who's always hot (and as someone concerned about micro-plastics), the widespread use of polyester in clothes is something I loathe. If I'm lucky, I'll find 100% cotton in my price range. Still looking for some quality linen, I hear that's the best for hot days. Would love to try it someday, if I can ever find it.

I don't shop for clothes online - it's nearly impossible to ensure sizing is accurate, and the place I live isn't a good location to have boxes sitting outside all day.

[–] PumaStoleMyBluff@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have never seen a linen shirt in my life 🫤 I would have to buy it from Amazon or a specialty online store probably

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