Just use Immich. It's easy and apes Google Photos.
Ente is the other main option, but I never evaluated it because Immich worked so well.
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Just use Immich. It's easy and apes Google Photos.
Ente is the other main option, but I never evaluated it because Immich worked so well.
Immich is the easiest self-hosted thing I've set up. It also might've been the first.
I have to warn you about Immich on one item: large file upload. Immich does not have chunk uploading, so if you are backing up a large video and you lose internet, the upload has to start all over. I found this out when my phone was trying to upload a 4k video that was about 10GB.
I do this with my family using Immich. Everyone has their own private library but we also have shared albums for vacations and such.
Immich is the correct choice
I use ente.io, afaik you can selfhost it but I'm sticking with their subscription since I don't trust myself with my backup strategy ^^"
It also has an "event"-feature where you can share an album-link and people without an account/the app can upload images to the album
Photoprism is what I use.
If you install proxmox on the laptop there is a community script to install and setup photoprism. Lots of other neat services you could run too. Relatively beginner friendly.
There are android and ios apps for photoprism that will auto upload new images from your phone to the photoprism server.