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[–] halfapage@lemmy.world 14 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

next time please donate the balls to the people in need :(

[–] mrmisses@lemmy.world 3 points 29 minutes ago

You pay for the surgery and you can have my balls

[–] marduk@lemmy.today 2 points 2 hours ago

These ain't your daddy's Rocky Mountain Oysters. Or are they?

[–] ummthatguy@lemmy.world 35 points 4 hours ago (4 children)

I'm curious about the "flute accompaniment." What tune will they play for the big moment?

[–] mrmisses@lemmy.world 2 points 25 minutes ago

I imagine something like that old Peter and the Wolf cartoon where each character is represented by a different wind instrument

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 12 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

There's a video of it out somewhere. It was pretty freakin' brutal.

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Only clip of the video I can find is in this podcast:

Facebook reel

Instagram reel

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 hour ago

Holy shit, I did not realize this was real

[–] Mighty@lemmy.world 8 points 3 hours ago

I heard November Kelly talking about it and her saying she took tons of pictures.

[–] robocall@lemmy.world 18 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Is it best to avoid getting kicked in the nuts prior to having surgery performed on them?

[–] als@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

The balls themself are discarded but the scrotum skin is used, so I imagine having that bruised would cause issues

[–] mrmisses@lemmy.world 3 points 26 minutes ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure they do the bilateral orchiectomy, then let you recover, then do bottom surgery? Maybe? Maybe not

[–] ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.zip 1 points 7 minutes ago (1 children)

I had everything done at once there wasn't any kind of partly done with recovery in between

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 1 points 2 minutes ago

How about a party beforehand?

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago

Makes them swell up, easier to grab onto and yank

[–] itrealgood@mander.xyz 10 points 4 hours ago

MAXIMUM DISRESPECT

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Execution style? Are there other kinds of styles?

[–] Captain_Stupid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Yes there is for example also the Olympic style.