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[–] katiecakes@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

I couldn't disagree more with this sentiment. I hate this doomer attitude. This sounds cliché but hope is really so powerful, and I truly believe they're trying to take that away from us.

That said, I'm not stupid, I see the world and I know the potential for a lot of bad is on our horizon. And some, like climate change, is locked in. But the rest isn't.

That doesn't mean world war, or the collapse of society, and I'll keep pushing back against that as long as I can. There's a lot of bad but there's still a lot of good.

This attitude feels like psyop shit to take our hope from us. Fuck that. I'm still dreaming of a good future, in whatever limited capacity that is. It's never black and white, 100% one way. There's still joy to be found and had and held, alongside the existing pain and fear.

[–] mossy_@lemmy.world 1 points 32 minutes ago

thank you. keep fighting y'all. the community still needs you.

[–] innermeerkat@jlai.lu 3 points 1 hour ago

Thanks for this comment. I needed it.

[–] betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world 20 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

I've found this thought oddly comforting for the past few years. Taking it as a reminder to enjoy the moment and have a little fun while I still can.

[–] Jimbo@pawb.social 1 points 1 hour ago

I have also come to this conclusion lol

Oddly liberating

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

You won't be wearing a skull ring by any chance, would you?

Edit: fixed typo

Yes but not on a finger or toe.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 12 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

The cars on fire, and there's no driver at the wheel.  
And the sewers are all muddied with a thousand lonely suicides.  
And a dark wind blows.  
The government is corrupt,  
and we're all on so many drugs with the radio on and the curtains drawn.  
We're trapped in the belly of this horrible machine,  
and the machine is bleeding to death.  
The sun has fallen down, and the billboards are all leering.  
And the flags are all dead, at the top of their poles.

It went like this...

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 hours ago

This is the second time I've felt it prudent to link to this song today... seems the spinning 'round the edge of The Abyss™ is especially evident today.