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Had to evict a big ass spider from my room today and was reminded of this meme template. At least it's easier to evict spiders than cats, the latter don't fit in measuring cups.

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[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 4 points 17 minutes ago

Had an ongoing battle of wills with a very large spider. It kept getting stuck in the sink and I kept moving it back out. Tried to convince it that there was better prey outside in the patio corner but it seemed to disagree. It finally disappeared. I don't love spiders but I don't love annoying bugs any better so I'm happy for the spiders to catch and eat their fill.

[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 3 points 12 minutes ago

I taught my kids early and often that spiders are friends, aside from a few dangerous ones we don't really encounter here. Mosquitos are scarier than spiders. One of my kids is still terrified of spiders though 😭

[–] raman_klogius@ani.social 3 points 19 minutes ago (1 children)

Can we really say spiders domesticated themselves when we were the ones to come live in their habitats (caves)? What are houses but a recreation of caves we used to call home?

[–] yetAnotherUser@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 8 minutes ago

They could've decided to just stay in their cold and moist caves. But warm and dry homes are apparently more pleasent. I don't fault them.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 5 points 42 minutes ago

Spiders are my favourite critters :D

[–] Hakuso@scribe.disroot.org 12 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

I kept wokf spiders in my place. They take care of ants, prevent roaches, and get rid of the other spiders that are dangeous. No help with mice, though.

[–] yetAnotherUser@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 29 minutes ago

Huh, it might've actually been a wolf spider that I threw out. Didn't know spiders that don't build nets enjoy entering homes. I guess temperatures are starting to drop, so it makes sense.

At least it would explain why it was just sitting in the middle of my wall nowhere near a corner.

Also apparently the other commentator was right, your wolf spiders are probably too small:

Wolf spiders are a vital source of natural pest control for many people's gardens or even homes, since the wolf spider preys on perceived pests such as crickets, ants, cockroaches, and in some cases lizards and frogs

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wolf_spider

[–] kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 hour ago

just find some bigger ones

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

One of my coworkers said she was trying to catch some ants to try to nurse a spider in her house back to good health. Absolutely insane behavior.

[–] orenj@leminal.space 7 points 46 minutes ago

golly, what a woman 💘

[–] Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip 1 points 3 minutes ago

We have a family of spiders in the bathroom that have survived a few generations now. Spiders are friends!

[–] L7HM77@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 minute ago

I'm usually arachnophobic, but once I had an orb weaver decide to live on the back of my work truck. Freaked me out at first, but I let it be. It would come out of it's hiding spot at night to make its web across the truck, and I would watch it clean up in the morning before I left. Almost got it on my face a few times while doing overnight work. It stayed with me all summer, I could always find it hidden under a door seal or up on the ladder rack, tucked away.

It was nice almost having a pet. Then, one morning, I get ready to leave for work. The web was still up, tattered, and spider bro was nowhere to be seen...