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[โ€“] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I mean yes, I agree, but on the other hand teasing is a commonly accepted form of bonding. If youre dating someone, presumably you have the skills to communicate your boundaries and what you are and are not comfortable with. As such, if this is a problem, it will presumably be hashed out. If not, then you are getting up in arms over a non issue, and that would seem to be indicitive of you having some personal issues that you might want to work out.

This isnt to put you down or a gotcha, im genuinely concerned that this impacts you so heavily and am open to discussing it in pms if youd like.

[โ€“] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I didn't assume these people were dating, I figured it was 2 friends. I took no insult from the joke thinking it was people having a laugh but if it was really someone who had seen their dick making the joke then it might actually be a hurtful joke. Overall I'd guess two heterosexual guys were the 2 in the discussion. Everyone knows there aren't any women on the internet