Fuck AI

Honestly the listacle is a bit cringe if you're at an age where most people can be expected to have been on a few dates. There's a huge difference between searching for coffee shops/museums/whatever else in your area or even "things to do in x area" and searching for first date ideas. The former says you have a structure in mind, but you don't necessarily know the specific locations, the latter says you have no idea and didn't think the first source to ask is the person you're going on a date with.

And as for llms vs general internet use goes? Yeah using llms is a turn off. I find the ability to write for oneself and process and analyze text for themselves important traits in a partner. What I've seen from llm users is that they often cede those skills.