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This is an issue I'm seeing more and more of. People are demanding that others be perfect at all times. We all fuck up and make mistakes. If we write off everyone we've ever disagreed with as irredeemably bad, then we're telling people there's no point in growing and changing.
When I was a kid in the early 90s in Texas, I thought homosexuality was immoral. I was wrong and I've spent the last 30 years preaching for inclusion and tolerance. And that's the story for most people my age. In the 90s, a Democratic President banned openly gay people from being in the military.
If we want to change society, we have to invite others to our side with open arms, not condemn them.
People demand others be perfect so they can live vicariously through them while their own life is a miserable mess. They refuse to have any form of introspective and self acknowledgement of themselves to make their own lives better, so they need others around them to be perfect, even if those others is a para-social relationship with a Youtuber.