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[–] DoubleDongle@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Usually when she won't say it outright and hopes you.figure it out, she's afraid to address the issue. Can't blame someone for not wanting to fix a girl's anxiety, but society makes a fucking lot of them, so I think it's worth it to get good at fostering a relationship where she's comfortable bringing anything up.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

so no matter what it is, it's still your fault for not making her comfortable, got it.

reminds of the time my ex broke up with me because I said I wasn't going to pay off her 150K in debt, and she said that meant I didn't lover and it upset her very much. Clearly my lack of emotional intelligence there, though it was a financially intelligent move.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That comment clearly says it’s worth it to make your partner comfortable in a relationship, not assigning blame.