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[–] ContriteErudite@lemmy.world 17 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (3 children)

My stepfather was a lifelong smoker. He smoked a full pack of Marlboro reds every day, and my mom smoked a full pack of menthols. I calculated out how much they spent yearly on cigarettes alone and it came to over $5000, and that was in the late 90's; it's probably much higher these days. Both of them had been smoking since the 70's.

When I talked to them about quitting, they both said that they enjoyed smoking too much, it's a stress relief, it's something to do, etc. They were aware of the health risks, but believed the risks were overblown and that emphysema is an "old person's" disease.

Last year he was diagnosed with stage 3 emphysema. The man is a dyed-in-the-wool hard-as-nails army vet boomer, and his obstinate machismo made him ignore years of poor health and lung disease symptoms all to finally end up as an old person with an "old person's" disease. Credit to him though, he did quit cold turkey the day his doctors delivered the diagnosis; the same obstinacy that pushed him to never give up smoking is what pushed him to quit. Me and my family love the hell out of him, and we're glad that he finally quit, but it's so aggravating that there are still so many people out there who discount the risks of smoking.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago

My mom never quit and died from COPD. My dad did quit back in 1981 but still had congestive heart failure later in kifecand had no chance when he got the 'rona.

Both of my sisters smoke. One sister has already had a heart attack.

[–] mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 hours ago

In my country there were ads that showed a smoker who had emphysema as part of an anti-smoking campaign.

They described it like taking a deep breath and then exhaling just a small puff, then inhaling that puff and repeating forever until you die.

Sorry for your stepfathers diagnosis.

[–] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 13 points 6 hours ago

It's because there's also genetics at play. One person can die young doing everything right and another could be like your stepfather and live just about forever.

Then that gets people think "well how am I different? I'll be just fine too!"