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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Explaining your stance doesn't negate sealioning.

[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gotcha. So you're saying that explaining my stance is compatible with sealioning.

Here's the thing. I would love to have civil, honest, constructive conversations. Seeing that this can be perceived as malicious is very frustrating to me. I could be accused of sealioning right now. It seems like a trap: damned if I do and damned if I don't.

What am I supposed to do if I want to have a civil, honest, and constructive conversations?

I don't doubt there are people who sealion. I just don't see myself as having a malicious intent. I'm being open about my stances and I want to see what people's stances are. But, again, damned if I do and damned if I don't.

I suppose there's nothing left for me to do other than tell you that, if you believe I'm acting in good faith, I'd love to talk to you. However, if you don't think I'm acting in good faith, then there's nothing we can do to move forward.

Regardless of what you think and what you choose, I genuinely hope you have a good one. In the grand scheme of things, I hope we can all live good lives.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Best to you too.