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Yeah.... No how about we just stop using Discord and move to something more decentralized like Matrix
Why would you pick matrix over https://stoat.chat/ ?
Because its federated, is also a really nice messaging replacement and is E2EE. If I only want a discord replacement without anything else I'd consider stoat, but really I feel like Matrix just checks so many more boxes. I've used Matrix for a long time now. Also since its FOSS anyone can build a client for it and you can make it yours
Isn't Stoat FOSS too?
Yeah ofc Stoat is too, I'm just saying what I like about Matrix. I just personally don't know of any third party Stoat clients but I also haven't looked into it since I'm accustomed to Matrix. I checked their page but its pretty bare bones on information
If they make the onboarding suck less, sure
I hear this. What could be better? You make an account and if its federated your done. Login, boom.
Download one of these 8 apps that's only available through a website or F-Droid, 2 haven't updated in 2 years, no we won't tell you which.
no they're not servers, it just is where your account info lives, and nothing else
there's no "Explore" mode, there's 20 websites that list servers, 5 of them are outdated, another 5 only work on a Tuesday, 10 of them only list 100/20,000 public servers
Oh. They're all quiet as fuck. All of them. What's the point?
Just use the Element client on desktop and Element X on mobile. Use the Matrix.org homeserver by the matrix foundation if you don't know any other/better choice for you personally. Bam and you're in. I actually really value the choice in clients tho. With the decentralized way of Matrix there's lots of options but just pick the mainstream once for starters
Probably the uncertainty of choosing a server and have it either vanish unexpectedly or it's admins ban your account without prior warning or transparency, which is also pretty common here in the fediverse.
I always help onboard people choosing one or two longstanding servers they might like. The last time I told someone to just use the matrix.org server to begin (years ago) it had closed registrations two hours earlier. Never again. 😅
Wait but isn't matrix.org available to anyone now?
It probably is. They just close registrations from time to time. But other smaller servers are usually a better choice.
There's a couple of server lists I like to check.