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[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 14 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

if it's any consolation, does make the bar for picking up woman incredibly low, makes it easier for the rest of us i think. just don't be a complete creep and your at top of the curve

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 24 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I recently re-entered the dating pool for the first time in a decade and it’s incredible how much attention I get from just appearing clean, having my shit together, and not posting a picture with me holding a fish. Never got so much attention from women before in my life. Had a date in like one week.

The bar is very, very low. I am sorry, ladies out there.

[–] sparkles@piefed.zip 13 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Lots of women who I know and date say “the bar is in hell.” Fr just be a functional adult with good hygiene and emotional intelligence and you are in the top 1%.

[–] vacuumflower@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 10 hours ago

and emotional intelligence

Thank you for telling me I'm unfit.

say “the bar is in hell.”

This reads like a joke or an exaggeration, but it's really there.

[–] pipe01@programming.dev 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I must be doing something wrong then lol

[–] zensanto@ttrpg.network -3 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

appearing clean

It means he's attractive.

having my shit together

It means he has money.

If you lack both of these, it's going to be rough.

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 21 minutes ago

I'm friends with several women: no it doesn't, and no it doesn't.

Having your shit together means your room doesn't have a pile of garbage building on the floor. It means you've hung up 1 piece of art to make your white walls more interesting. It means your carpet was washed within the last 3 months.

[–] ParlimentOfDoom@piefed.zip 1 points 24 minutes ago

Yours is the exact attitude that causes women to flee. Bitterness is not attractive.