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[โ€“] Donkter@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It hits for me when I'm typing it out and I can already read the braindead response they're going to type and I don't want to spend another 2 paragraphs preempting the obvious response and I definitely don't want to wait a few hours/days to explain why they're still wrong.

[โ€“] f314@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I am slightly concerned that I recognized the anime source from that one frame ๐Ÿ˜… To be fair it is a fantastic series! Check out Paranoia Agent if you can ๐Ÿฟ

[โ€“] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Literally just finished watching it. Incredibly series from the GOAT Satoshi Kon. But... I will admit when I first saw it, my brain went to

I have a plushie! :)

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[โ€“] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yep.

Flippant, mildly humorous comment, one sentence: (2,345 ๐Ÿ‘) (123๐Ÿ’ฌ)

Well thought out, reliably sourced reply of one to two small paragraphs: (3๐Ÿ‘) (0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ)

Sorry your comment was too long I got bored halfway through

[โ€“] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lemmy is actually better on this. I get a lot of upvotes for well thought-out long posts and comments here as well as humorous one-liners. I've been pleasantly surprised that people actually take the time to read out my longer posts. On reddit it'd probably just get lost and be another 1 thumber that never got read.

The key is also to make your story interesting. Something that pulls your reader in. Be personal and amicable. Realize you're talking to real people and speak to those people in your writing. I'm more of a creative writing buff. I managed to eek out 98th percentile for creative writing in my SATs. I love writing. Its my favorite thing to do. I want to be an author. I fucking hate my ADHD. I've started a hundred books at least and either bore myself or tell myself its a stupid plot, even though I have friends and family begging for me to finish something.

My early books were written in small notebooks. The old ones that sorta looked like they had cowprint covers with a title on them. They'd get passed around the school for weeks. I'd get them back and people would keep asking me to continue. I never did. Fuck me, I hate ADHD sometimes. But your words are alive. They can heal, hurt, cause laughter and tears, and, above all, words can influence anything. Words are power and, as long as you are careful of that power, you can write any damn length you want.

Honestly, my fear now is AI. I like AI, but I don't want to write a book and have people claim its AI or AI assisted. I'm regretting not writing one earlier now.

tl;dr: Is k. Writ stuf.

[โ€“] TheThrillOfTime@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I have to remind myself engaging is mostly useless.

[โ€“] railcar@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I bookmark subreddits and read them without logging in. Every time I feel the urge, I've got a hurdle to cross before I can type anything. Then it's immediately a "fuck it" moment and move on

The Reddit interface is so fucking obnoxious when you're not logged in, I've just given up on the community entirely. Days of casually browsing have been ruined by the constant gating and engagement baiting and GUI hell they've injected into the site.

When you're 20 minutes into an argument on reddit and suddenly get permanently IP banned for saying something that didn't even break rules

[โ€“] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

If I was the owner of Reddit, i would 100% save in-progress comments, and keep the unsent ones in the database for my enjoyment.

[โ€“] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Someone gave some advice on a forum or a blog or something a long time ago that really stuck with me and completely altered my outlook about social media and interacting with people via the internet in general:

Before you hit "send", ask yourself whether this is for your benefit, or that of those who will see it.

I basically stopped using socials after that, because I seldom thought of anything that followed this rule, and my feed was so full of garbage from people who also didn't, but saw fit to post it anyway. The internet has given society an ego masturbation problem.