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Except under communism you would have densification with public spaces and parks.

[–] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Soviet architecture being like that has nothing to do with socialism and everything with authoritarianism. Just like everything else they did.

[–] QuandaleDingle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

100%. They socialized the civic losses and sacrifices, and privatized the gains for their oligarchy.

[–] lechekaflan@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

Part of the reason why I hate the concept of emigrating to countries with McHouse suburban sprawls. The goddamn lack of convenience of just walking down to nearly every shop addressing my needs, and instead forced to drive a car.

[–] altphoto@lemmy.today 6 points 4 hours ago

Oh hi neighbor! Just taking a shower. Hope you don't mind, but I don't like draperies.

[–] smh@slrpnk.net 12 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

At least there's a sidewalk. That's more walkable than some places I've lived.

[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago

Sidewalk on only one side of the road is pretty insane.

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 hours ago

that sidewalk guaranteed has cars parked on it every third house

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 12 points 5 hours ago

I agree with you, absolutely right, but also

"I'm walking to the store honey, I'll be back in 90 minutes!

[–] SwingingTheLamp@piefed.zip 48 points 7 hours ago (6 children)

There may be an argument about how the two are linked, but the -ism on display in the second photo is racism. The US built the suburbs quite explicitly to keep black people out by using poverty as a proxy, after the SCOTUS blocked housing segregation.

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 15 points 6 hours ago

Yes, and it's also unfettered capitalism. Developers buy land cheap, build homes cheap, and sell them for a profit. That's usually not in the best interests of the homeowners or the community. In many other countries, homeowners buy land, choose a builder, buy materials, and contribute to their local area. It's a system that costs slightly more upfront, but most of the value stays where it should, with the homeowners and the laborers. There's no mass-produced garbage or corporate veils to syphon and protect profits far away from the community.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 11 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

the -ism on display in the second photo is racism.

You can definitely go into the deep history of Levittowns, Master Planned Country Club communities, and Red Lining in the big metro areas. But I think the advent of the modern suburb speaks more heavily to the mix of "Free Real Estate" and enormous state subsidies for rural development following the S&L crash of the 1980s.

Like, there's no reason these can't be high rise condos with racist building managers, rather than cookie cutter ranch homes with racist HOAs. The suburb isn't merely about racial segregation, it is about individualist alienation. Breaking up the extended family unit into the nuclear family cluster, subdividing the working class into thinner and thinner economic tranches, and fencing people into gilded cages complete with 30 year golden handcuff mortgage notes.

You can debate over the exact degree to which civic planners intended to separate and capture individual specimens of human labor. Or how deliberately the 1950s architectural model of personalized kitchens, TVs, and car ports manufactured an increasingly pliable working class subject. But the subdivision doesn't end at the color line. We are a fully balkanized society.

[–] totally_human_emdash_user@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah, my wife and I moved in with my parents ~ 8 years ago while I was between jobs, and because we all get along it has been such a lovely experience (especially during the pandemic!) that we have never felt a need to move back out. A couple of years ago my uncle moved in because his house was unlivable, and being able to spend time with him has been nice too.

On the other hand, I did also like living by myself, and later just with my wife, for a while, so that I could have my own personal space and privacy. I think I would have felt resentful if I were forced into a particular living situation rather than being able to choose it.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I think I would have felt resentful if I were forced into a particular living situation rather than being able to choose it.

I mean, we're all forced into a living situation that our budgets and our work-life demands. The illusion of choice is going to a real estate agent and seeing twenty different near-identical overpriced units, then making a dubiously informed decision that'll lock you into 30 years of debt.

I'd love to live in a crystal palace on a tropical island next to a rail station that's thirty minutes east of midtown Manhattan and an hour west of the Vail chairlifts which runs me $99.50/mo for the note. No amount of resentfulness will give it to me.

I was thinking more along the lines of situations where the forcing took the form of emotional pressure.

[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

ADUs and duplex/triplex/fourplex housing would go so.hard

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

We're already seeing them pop up wherever real estate prices go vertical.

But dense housing builders are constantly at war with suburban city planners. Getting permits is an increasingly Kafka-esque endeavor, unless you can buy yourself an exemption through municipal corruption.

[–] SwingingTheLamp@piefed.zip 2 points 5 hours ago

We don't have to debate to what extent civic planners intended to divide people by color. In his book, The Color of Law, Richard Rothstein just straight-up quoted them. They weren't shy, and they wrote it down in memos, meeting minutes, and even speeches.

That's why I say that the suburbs are a product of racism... because the people who created them intended them that way, and said so.

For the economic analysis from the class perspective, look at why suburbs became entrenched, which has a lot to do with the auto industry.

[–] totally_human_emdash_user@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I think that you missed the point the post is making, which is that it is ironic to claim that capitalism saves us from having to live in drab cookie-cutter housing given what suburbia looks like.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

You don't have to live in those places. You choose to.

Can't pay me to live in one of those.

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 hours ago
[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Historically lawns were basically a show of "look at all the labor I control to keep this land barren."

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Racism AND capitalism.

The "single family home" was barely a concept before American development early last century. For the majority of human history, people dwelled together, raised families together, stayed together and supported each other their whole lives.

It was the housing industry making these "neighborhoods of the future" that started pushing the idea of moving out at 18 and getting a home on your steel-mill salary of $10 per week, and then it became shameful to still live with your family past a certain age. Forcing so many Americans into a role of being a sole-provider for an entire household as wages have dropped and house prices have soared, and we all still keep "investing" into homes in suburbia despite nobody feeling fulfilled in these cul-de-sac lives, and both parents of children having to work 6 days a week or more just to afford to sleep there.

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 2 points 3 hours ago

This is largely ahistorical, ignoring factors like:

  • Availability of land
  • The desire for privacy
  • The invention and spread of the car making living further from places of work practical
  • The desire for (ones own) outdoor space

The desire for privacy should, in particular, be obvious to the fediverse's privacy conscious users: I don't necessarily want my parents, grandparents, children, siblings, nephews and nieces all knowing:

  • What I'm reading/watching on TV
  • How my music practice is going
  • What I'm having for dinner
  • What time I go to bed
  • When and with whom I have sex
  • etc

There are many reasons why it's not sustainable to focus on them as the main unit of housing, but the rise of detached houses corresponds to living standards rising to the point where it was something people could afford. It's not a nefarious plot orchestrated by a secret cabal.

[–] tidderuuf@lemmy.world 0 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

You are right. We should live in trailer parks and farms with all the other... Oh shit.

It is not clear to me why you think that is the only other option.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 6 points 5 hours ago

Cars are also unattractive when viewed from the bottom.

[–] Stefan_S_from_H@piefed.zip 6 points 5 hours ago

An HOA isn't mentioned in the capitalist handbook.

[–] kboos1@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago

Must be a pic from a few years ago, now they're basically town homes with about 3ft in between them so they can cram more in but still list it as a single house. Plus just enough land to fit the structure on, then they sell it for twice as much as the 20yo house down the road with at least an acre.

[–] U7826391786239@lemmy.zip 13 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

you couldn't pay me to live in one of those cookie cutter deed restricted HOA infected insect colonies

[–] totally_human_emdash_user@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

It always makes me sad to see developers come in, raze all of the trees, and replace them with depressing housing in their place...

In the Midwest of the states it kills me. Hey here is the most fertile land ON THE PLANET and were just going to pave over it, add shitty suburban sprawl that will be bankrupt in 30 years, and kill the soil while we're at it. So goddamn wasteful.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago
[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I'd live in those. They are big modern houses with a law and a backyard. Neighbourhood looks safe.

In nz we have the same except every house is a piece of shit with a tiny backyard.

[–] totally_human_emdash_user@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

There are definitely worse places to live in, but the lack of trees is depressing.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

It looks like there are trees in the front yards but its a new sub division

Sure, there are not zero trees, but that is not the same as there being plenty of trees.

[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] NichEherVielleicht@feddit.org 0 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Yes, wtf did I wrote?

Edit: Thx changed it.