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[–] kylie_kraft@lemmy.world 76 points 3 hours ago (4 children)

The story is a bit more complicated than the meme lets on.

First, while she was certainly very ill after 2 heart attacks, it is unclear if his wife was terminally ill. She was disabled and had mental illness. The husband says that she wanted to die so she left the nursing home. Second, the drug binge went on for 5 days and her condition deteriorated throughout. While she was presumably doing large amounts of meth amphetamines, she also was not taking her prescribed medications. Third, at least in the article that I linked above, the sex occured at the very end and he said that she was unable to speak at that point and she died more or less immediately after. Finally, she died of a meth overdose, and not of her other illnesses.

I'm all for dying on your own terms, and if this was truly her idea or she was fully on board, more power to them. However, the wife can't speak for herself and all we've got is this guy's word.

[–] voodooattack@lemmy.world 2 points 44 minutes ago

Huh. This is new

Anyways, she could have left a note back at the nursing home under her pillow: “I wanted this” in her handwriting would have saved hin a lot of headache. But I’m assuming she could write and that’s not her specific handicap from the disability? Can’t tell without access to the article.

[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 39 points 3 hours ago

Nonreductionist history is such a drag man.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Sometimes with people, I try to imagine them as ants and what type of ant they'd be.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today -1 points 2 hours ago

I have a tendency to see most people as so pathetic, they are cute, so pathetic, they could be pets, or deranged demonic beasts. Really hard to have actual respect for humans when I'm feed news like this.

[–] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 hours ago

Also, the guy in the picture is 58

If I were on the jury, I'd never convict this man.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 76 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

That's the face of a man who does not give one single fuck about being arrested. And, we all know why.

[–] Damage@feddit.it 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I don't think they use the pictures of the actual people in these memes

[–] AlfalFaFail@lemmy.ml 1 points 53 minutes ago

That's him.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 60 points 4 hours ago

You know, why the fuck not?

[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 26 points 4 hours ago

Sure, you love your girlfriend. But how much?

I'd kill for her. I'd die for her.

But would you spend the rest of your life in jail to give her the most fun send-off when she's terminally ill?

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 30 points 4 hours ago

That's the blue meth too, a sign of good quality!

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 18 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I present to the jury Florida man's brother:

Average Montana people

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 8 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Not disputing that Montana is full of meth, but this happened in Minnesota

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Jesus I'm dumb.Thank you, Farengi. Maybe Montana is a little methed but they didn't deserve to catch my strays like that

[–] ThanksObama@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

No, they definitely deserved it. (Former resident)

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Same, what prompted your flight?

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm a current MT resident, planning to leave because I can't afford it anymore and I keep having to travel out of state for specialty medical care. And honestly, the number of times people have used slurs around me is too damn high

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

About what I was expecting. It's the same story all along the Rocky Mountains. The States keep becoming tax havens for billionaires, prices go up, the locals get nasty with the newcomers and eachother. MT always had that underlying KKK populace though.

Hope you make it somewhere you feel safer

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 2 points 2 hours ago

Thank you 💜

[–] ekZepp@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago

Do what you want. I've won.