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A collection of some classic Lemmy memes for your enjoyment
That's not free time. That's decompression time. Free time is time when you are well rested, all your needs are met, obligations fullfilled, AND you have unencumbered time to persue a passion or intellectual persuit. The rich have free time, the rest of us just take breathers from our responsibilities from time to time.
Well said. My weekend turns out to be decompression time.
Abso-fuckin-lutely thats also why working so much sucks too because you dont have enough time to decompress LET ALONE any free time and its frustrating because it looks and feels like you just do nothing/have bad time management/are a slob when you’re off work and it becomes a maddening cycle
I'm sure that applies to a lot of people, but even when I have, like, 1 day of stress and a month of chill time, I still spend the whole month laying around doing nothing if I don't force myself to do something productive.
Decompression time is definitely important, but it's also important to know yourself enough to identify when you're fully decompressed and ready to do something healthy for your body and mind, even if you just wanna watch another youtube video.
Yeah, it's also important to get in the habit of lightly pushing yourself towards hobbies and other such things with that time. I didn't do much while unemployed, in part because I lost the distinction between rest and wasting time
But watching youtube for your decompression doesn't get you to a well rested state. It can do the opposite. So you aren't making any progress toward actually getting free time.
Better decompression. Turn off all networking. Read something for 5 minutes and go for a walk. Successful decompression in 10 minutes, not 10 hours.
Whether intentional or not, or just progressive improvement on algorithms, youtube thrives by providing a need, and then providing it poorly so you keep your watch time going forever. This is a fun feature of machine learning. Non-willfull conspiracies. A system can do something malicious to get ahead that is equivalent to a highly calculated malicious action, while no one, including the model itself or the algorithms that trained it, or the people who trained it, understands what it's doing.
Whether intentional or not, or just progressive improvement on algorithms, youtube thrives by providing a need, and then providing it poorly so you keep your watch time going forever.
It depends. I'm a huge nerd and my YouTube browsing habits are relating to educational videos and long form essays. My news sources on YouTube are also less sensationalist.
On algorithm, I kinda minimise its bs by turning off my watch history. I bookmark my YouTube page to my watch later playlist, so I could chip away at my nearly twenty years of backlog of videos to watch.
Yeah, YouTube is still great if you reject the algorithm and continuous feed junk. I've got my subscriptions categorized in a set order and just run through them every so often.
Escapism is often called "Decompression" or "Fun"
Decompression depends on how much stress is accumulated. Sometimes 10 hours of mindless youtube is exactly the thing I need after some of the weeks.
10 hours of YouTube is not decompression
2 hours isn't even
That's being so tired the lights are on, but there's nobody home.
You can spell "unencumbered" but not pursue or pursuit?
English language is one of the worst languages known to humanity. The way it arbitrarily incorporates some words and makes up pronunciations is diabolical. It took me four tries to spell "pronunciations" correctly.
Be glad that we speak at least somewhat coherently in this bullshit language of yours.
It's just pronounce but then you take away some of the letters for some reason!
And some words, you pronounce the root differently if you add a suffix. There's no rhyme or reason for why, you just do.
Some of us are just bad spellers, my friend.
I used to be worse. You werent their back in my livejornal days. It was reely bed back than.
That was not free time but time off.
There's no such thing as a completely free time. There will always be obligations and duties looming over it and limitations what can be done with this small respite.
Those obligations just like only exist in people's heads, man.
Maybe all time is completely free time, and all of that other stuff are things you've decided to let interfere with your free time.
I am hungry, and I have no food ready. I also have no clean clothes
That's just like your opinion, man
A true act of freedom is to every once in a while seriously consider saying fuck it and breaking your habits and routines
That's just defeatism talking. ;)
Maybe, maybe just realism.
There is no such concept in today's society as a truly free time.
You can absolutely have free time. You don't owe shit to anyone 24/7. Taking a break - and that counts hygiene, cleaning etc. too - for one day is absolutely alright. Drop the phone, do whatever you want, be it watching YT for 16 hours straight, goin the fuck out to hit the pubs or frolicking in the grass.
We, sadly, are not able to live like that day to day. But we absolutely can eke out such time for ourselves. If that's what we want to do.
Small note - "sadly not able to live like that day to day" does not include dropping hygiene fully. You owe it to yourself if not anyone else. :|
But we do owe shit to someone, to the people we live with or even if just for our future selves. Keeping on track with standard daily chores to avoid those piling up, taking care of others, taking others into consideration even. Add in kids and a partner and the list of conditions gets even longer.
16h of YT, who cooks and cleans and prepares for the next day then?
Going out to the pub, comes with conditions that by tomorrow I'm sober enough, financial limitations not to blow whole budget on booze and time limitations.
Frolicking in the grass, season dependant and having acess to an adequate patch of grass or just accepting odd looks from passerbys when doing it in a public space and like a police check up.
We can keep going, you can give any scenario and i can give conditions that must be met for it and the limitations it has.
But we do owe shit to someone, to the people we live with or even if just for our future selves.
Break the self imposed chains, mate. Kids an partner do limit it, but you absolutely can take a day of - just keep in mind to keep it consensual with your partner and be ready to return the favor in the future. Hell, I see in most advice given by parents to other parents to do exactly that to avoid going crazy.
But all in all, I am going to be blunt. You sound like someone who is constantly on the lookout for reasons not to live your life. You are not a cog in the machine, you are not essential to the world turning, one day off won't make the whole fall apart. Live your life. Be human.
Yeah the the wider world won't fall apart or even notice if I'm missing and yes there are constantly lots of reasons or conditions to look out for and take into consideration when making decisions.
But my world will. I am the lynchpin, the stable backbone, that holds it together and makes it function, I'm not good at it, i suck at it, but that's the best i can do. I can't spontaneously take a day off, because then I'd have to do more the next day. If i don't keep up with even the most basic daily task, then no one else will complete those for me.
Though don't get me wrong, it's not that grim. Despite all the limitations and constrictions, i have managed to eke out some quality hobby time and with some preplanning i can sometimes take a day off, with reasonable limitations.
And i do appreciate the bluntness, thank you for that.
But my world will. I am the lynchpin, the stable backbone, that holds it together and makes it function, I’m not good at it, i suck at it, but that’s the best i can do.
Though don’t get me wrong, it’s not that grim.
It does sound like it. You ok, friend?
Oddly yeah and been getting better over the years, of course could be better, but have been significantly worse.
I've just always had a slightly darker outlook on everything. Surprisingly beneficial when things do actually get worse.
I dont think its bad to have something to do. There is luxury in not having to do those things urgently or immediately but I personally get kinda in the dumps when I dont have anything I could be doing to progress/enrich myself, my wife, or my friends.
I wish it was youtube. Instead it's places like this.
Don't underestimate the impact of revenge bedtime procrastination
You see, the watch later playlist won't watch itself.
~~Man I wish I had some free time….~~
Man I wish I could get shit done….
10hrs!!!
I'm on the fence between "I wish I had 10hrs of free time for youtube" vs "If I'm on YouTube for 10hrs straight, I give you permission to break in and pull me outside"
Lets do it. Lets do it together. Lets block youtube.
In /etc/hosts, add:
0.0.0.0 youtube.com
And our time will be free again! :)
No one's with me.
...
Not even me.