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1 year on e and I am actually SO weak now, I had to ask my dad to put some weights back on the rack for me when we went to the gym 😭

I used to be able to do 450lb leg press 5 times in a row what happened

I don't absolutely hate myself anymore so that's going for me :steamhappy:

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[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 44 minutes ago

At least you got to be featured in a story by the famous Legitimate Journalist Name (LeJo Nombre to his friends), though!

[–] erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 hour ago

nyaaaaaaaaa, i always was weak as hell, weaker than anyone, cuz i think because im kitty actually

[–] SomGye@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 hours ago

That last part is super important though 😭🙏❤️‍🩹

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Meh. That's what hydraulics and heavy machinery are for.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 14 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

right, who needs muscles when you're forklift certified

[–] wander1236@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It's unfair to the forklift certified cis women to have a forklift certified trans woman in the employee roster /s

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 33 minutes ago

they can compensate with more muscles

...please

[–] femtek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

I have to actually work out now so my shoulder stays in place now.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 2 points 1 hour ago

I feel bad for laughing but lol

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

I have the same issue, I now no longer can open jars as easily 🥲